KaramelKendra
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I just recently separated from my other half ,we have a child together and i m currently living on my own .i recently started seeing my neighbour after he invited me for dinner ,the first evening we spent together was great ,we talked about alot of things and we seem to have quite alot in common .After 5 hours we kissed .He told me i m very attractive and seem to genuinely enjoy my company ,i always thought he was attractive but never really thought about him in any way .He texted me the next day saying he dreamed about me and to have a good day .
Date number 2 he texted me asking me to go over anytime as the door is always open for me , unable to resist i went in, we talked a long time and we kissed again .
Date number 3 :I texted him asking him how he was doing at 10pm ,he asked me to go to his house ,this time he was rather agressive with his flirting and we ended up having sex .Huge mistake on my part .
The next day he didn't text me at all ..so i ask him what's up he told me he s busy with work yet asked me to go see him .He gave me a hot drink ,told me he thought about the previous night all day and couldn't focus at work ,he then closed his laptop and chatted with me for about an hour and a half ,he started talking about his work out regime and how "he wants his perfect woman wherever she may be to think he's great inside out " .that was an akward moment ,i felt like an idiot as obviously he s not even taking in consideration it could be me ,he even went as far as saying "if i have you what do i need a girlfriend for " .Please somebody explain this line ...
I feel i made a mistake giving up the goodies so quickly and that probably slowed down the race on his part .
What do you guys think ?
I just recently separated from my other half ,we have a child together and i m currently living on my own .i recently started seeing my neighbour after he invited me for dinner ,the first evening we spent together was great ,we talked about alot of things and we seem to have quite alot in common .After 5 hours we kissed .He told me i m very attractive and seem to genuinely enjoy my company ,i always thought he was attractive but never really thought about him in any way .He texted me the next day saying he dreamed about me and to have a good day .
Date number 2 he texted me asking me to go over anytime as the door is always open for me , unable to resist i went in, we talked a long time and we kissed again .
Date number 3 :I texted him asking him how he was doing at 10pm ,he asked me to go to his house ,this time he was rather agressive with his flirting and we ended up having sex .Huge mistake on my part .
The next day he didn't text me at all ..so i ask him what's up he told me he s busy with work yet asked me to go see him .He gave me a hot drink ,told me he thought about the previous night all day and couldn't focus at work ,he then closed his laptop and chatted with me for about an hour and a half ,he started talking about his work out regime and how "he wants his perfect woman wherever she may be to think he's great inside out " .that was an akward moment ,i felt like an idiot as obviously he s not even taking in consideration it could be me ,he even went as far as saying "if i have you what do i need a girlfriend for " .Please somebody explain this line ...
I feel i made a mistake giving up the goodies so quickly and that probably slowed down the race on his part .
What do you guys think ?
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