Giving up the "Mmmhmm good-goods" on the regular

I'm going to "give up" the goods whenever I want to get laid *ye shrug* Sex for me is not regulated solely by whatever concerns him in the equation.
 
"If you get the milk for free then why buy the cow...". I know ya'll heard that expression. lol

Yeah so my question goes to the ladies who are in committed relationships (but are NOT married) who are sexually active with their SO.

Do you feel giving up the Mmmhmmm good-goods on the regular/often will hinder or help your relationship? Why?

Frequently and often...is my motto. I'm not going to deprive myself holding out for that ring/carrot.

See I guess I don't see it as giving it up as a hinderance because I'd be making me miserable...so what would be the point in that.
 
"It neither hinders nor helps. If a man is going to marry you he is going to marry you. You giving him more or less sex is not going to help nor hurt your chances."

Quote un quote from a man who has been married and is hoping like hell I say yes one day...lol.

PS...we do it alot and if he ever decided to lessen the frequency I would have to seriously reconsider him for a husband.
 
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Rationing out the goods is a terrible idea. I was just talking with my fiance about this, and he said that most guys would drop a girl that was that controlling. They would think that her manipulative tendencies would only get worse after they were married.
 
I'm not in a relationship but coloring is about my pleasure not just his. So if I'm "giving it up on the regular" it's because I want to. My SO should worry when I don't color with him regularly.
 
Rationing out the goods is a terrible idea. I was just talking with my fiance about this, and he said that most guys would drop a girl that was that controlling. They would think that her manipulative tendencies would only get worse after they were married.


Of course that is what men say but I disagree, I think they propose. Well at least if they are wifey material, the relationship is not just about sex.
 
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