Gifts for divorcing couples :-/

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Debenhams launches divorce gift list for separating couples

Essential household items feature on list for newly single people







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Debenhams divorce list is the latest service to be launched for the newly separated. Photograph: Mike Kemp/Getty Images

Toasters, wine glasses and bed linen might be staples of the traditional wedding list, but they're set to make an appearance on the gift lists of separating couples, thanks to one retailer.
Debenhams today unveiled a divorce gift list service to encourage separating couples to ask their friends to pay for much-needed household items suited to their newly single life.



"With so many couples now living together before they marry, the wedding gift list concept is now regarded as more of an upgrade service, rather than stocking up the first home with the basics," said Peter Moore, head of retail services at Debenhams.
"However, a divorce means that one partner will be leaving their marital home and therefore be left without any essentials in their new house."
Items the store expects to be popular choices among divorcees include cookware, cutlery, crockery, glasses, bedlinen, towels and small electrical goods such as toasters and microwaves, as well as non-iron shirts, large plasma screen TVs and computer games.
There has recently been a flurry of services launched for those in the throes of separation. Earlier this month it emerged that one divorce lawyer had started selling legal advice vouchers for those thinking of separating.



Divorce parties, which are already big business in the US, have started making inroads in the UK fuelled by celebrities including Jordan, Gail Porter and Heather Mills celebrating their separations.
The celebrate-not-commiserate trend has also led to wedding cake specialists turning their hand to divorce sponges, while last year the Starting over show opened its doors in Brighton and will open in London in March this year.


January is the peak time for divorce and lawyers have said they expect the number of couples contacting them to rise signficantly this year as confidence in the economy grows.
On average, marrying couples include 120 items on their wedding gift list, including iPods and holidays, Debenhams said. Friends and family may be hoping a divorce list is rather cheaper.
 
I mostly see divorced folks stepping up their game for the dating world so I'd add gym memberships, Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, etc, EHarmony.

Most of them are with new partners or actively looking for new partners within a few months.
 
If a friend divorces, I might take her out to cheer her up or buy her a nice top or something. I'll even celebrate with her if she feels that way, but I won't buy anything expensive...I'll save that for her birthday or something.
 
My mom is divorcing and I/we threw her a Bday party....but we made it a point to get her some new wigs though.
 
Why can I see folks plotting. We will get married on 5/1/10 and then divorce on 5/2/11. We will make out like fat rats.
The best gift I received for my divorce was getting rid of my exhusband. That is all I needed.
 
If a friend divorces, I might take her out to cheer her up or buy her a nice top or something. I'll even celebrate with her if she feels that way, but I won't buy anything expensive...I'll save that for her birthday or something.

No divorce cake?
No divorce party?
No divorce balloons?
No expensive set of new kitchen accessories?

:(
 
Okay you know what people just need to start buying things for themselves. I don't even celebrate birthdays, and holidays but I'm awfully tired of being gifted out for other people milestones and life changes. I'm going to just start giving cards. Period. Point blank.
 
Okay you know what people just need to start buying things for themselves. I don't even celebrate birthdays, and holidays but I'm awfully tired of being gifted out for other people milestones and life changes. I'm going to just start giving cards. Period. Point blank.
Also people need to understand gifts are good will gestures. No one is obiligated to give anyone a gift. Yes, a person can acknowledge but as the years go by some seem to feel entitled to a gift at all milestones big or small. IE baby showers for 2nd, 3rd, 4th baby.

Yup I said it.

I don't give out many gifts because some things are just silly, but for all milestones a person will receive a handwritten note from me. No, not an email, but a real letter sent via the United States Postal Service. When I receive notes\letters from people, I have held on to them longer than any present I have ever received.
 
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