SHEANITPRO
Well-Known Member
There are so many single people that are oblivious to what it takes to keep people interested in them. So many of us focus on the absolute wrong thing, that we end up getting in our own way of making a connection. Here’s the thing: just because you have a great resume and look great on paper, doesn’t mean the right person will chase you down or fall into your lap.
If you really think about your last dating mis-adventure, you could probably pinpoint where you went wrong. It’s not always “I picked the wrong person” either. It’s possible that it is you or me. We are sometimes part of the problem and may not know it.
One thing that I have noticed that I do is act very aloof with men that I am interested in. I have had this problem for quite a while and even when I actively try to change it, it seems to be a defense mechanism that kicks in like a knee-jerk reaction.
What do you think is getting in the way for you?
I have noticed that in Atlanta where I live, a man can think that his great car, fly clothes, and a little swagger (that word is not going away, is it?) is enough to make women fawn all over him. Oh, some fawn over him, alright! This is also the same guy that will complain about women who are too materialistic and shallow.
While the single women in Atlanta can boast of their hot looks and gym tight figures, they are happy to turn the heads of gentleman. They showcase their looks and accomplishments but will complain that men don’t take them seriously.
They get upset when they can’t keep a man interested beyond a couple of weeks. They haven’t quite figured out how to capture a man’s imagination and his mind.
So, let’s be honest, what is getting in the way of our dating relationships?
Are you working on things that have impeded you in the past?
If you really think about your last dating mis-adventure, you could probably pinpoint where you went wrong. It’s not always “I picked the wrong person” either. It’s possible that it is you or me. We are sometimes part of the problem and may not know it.
One thing that I have noticed that I do is act very aloof with men that I am interested in. I have had this problem for quite a while and even when I actively try to change it, it seems to be a defense mechanism that kicks in like a knee-jerk reaction.
What do you think is getting in the way for you?
I have noticed that in Atlanta where I live, a man can think that his great car, fly clothes, and a little swagger (that word is not going away, is it?) is enough to make women fawn all over him. Oh, some fawn over him, alright! This is also the same guy that will complain about women who are too materialistic and shallow.
While the single women in Atlanta can boast of their hot looks and gym tight figures, they are happy to turn the heads of gentleman. They showcase their looks and accomplishments but will complain that men don’t take them seriously.
They get upset when they can’t keep a man interested beyond a couple of weeks. They haven’t quite figured out how to capture a man’s imagination and his mind.
So, let’s be honest, what is getting in the way of our dating relationships?
Are you working on things that have impeded you in the past?