I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years a few weeks back. I quickly realized there was too much to be lost if we didn't stay together. So much love to lose, so many beautiful memories that I could never think of sharing with anyone else. The whole time we've been together he's lied, cheated, broken my heart- you name it. Most women would say i'm crazy to be with him (I thought so for a while).... but this time around, so far, is SO dramatically different.
He cares so much for how I feel- he's actually SHOWING that he's changing and giving it so much effort this time around. I can't help but think this time around we've gotten better & grown as individuals (even in such a short, short time). I broke up with him honestly. Even though it was for good reason-- i've noticed that it was all over past things and not over current situations. I was willing to abandon it and he was willing to work with me to fix the deficiency that he helped to create. Its working now... I think its worth it if everyone gets past their respective problems for the growth of both parties and the growth and depth of the relationship