Fun thread: What type of men do you typically attract?

:lol: ...I have had the producer/record executive who was about to blow up as soon as they get their singing acts together and once the album drops.... :lol:

I didn't know that was so widespread. They be serious too about that mess.
 
southerncitygirl said:
:ohwell:unemployed bums
:perplexedafrican men that stalk/follow me for blocks (i needz a taser:nono:)
:sad:street pharmacists
:ohwell:indian men (even when they are hypermasculine/misgynistic most times i find them to be effeminate and i usually don't find them attractive)
:drunk:goofy *** white men
:nono:potheads
:spinning: ugly men
:spinning: men with gold teeth or raggedy mouths
:spinning:hood types with baggy pants & cornrows
:sad:old geezers that could be my dad or grandad
:nono: men who cat call
:sad:alpha males ( i'm an alpha female so, this doesn't work)
:blush:fat bastids (they look at me like spareribs with pork-fried rice)
:ohwell:the doctors, execs, and upwardly mobile types tend to look at me but don't approach....the times that they have and i've dated them, they are usually a hot messin their personal life and socially inept/awkward.


y'all see why i'm single and celibate:look:

FYI: I don't carry myself in a desperate or "hood" type of way and I have natural hair. I am 5'11, medium build/pear-shaped and have a "donk". I know one of you are likely to say something slick about how I present myself. I also live in NYC.
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Go spend time in BK...esp Fort Greene, Target First Saturdays at the Brooklyn Museum, etc. I am sure you will meet someone. BK dudes love natural sistas! If I lived closer to BK I'd go there more often to hang out. Habana Outpost during the summer is another nice place and there's this bar around the corner from Habana on the same block that's kicking on the weekends.

To get with the professional dudes, maybe casually strike up convo with them in a non-aggressive way, like "oh, nice shirt" or make a joke. Esp since you're an Alpha female, you probably have to initiate the convo if you want a shyer dude.

Good luck!
 
I attract:

White Christian men

Professionals with an edge....love those types.

Good boys...

But I notice I attract a variety of men.
 
25-35, no kids, college-educated - but usually no higher degrees, AA, extremely social, in shape, and almost always Leos or Virgos. (Sounds good, but a lot of these men aren't ready to settle down & we may not have a lot in common. I'm in law school, and I have a son.)
 
I seem to attract two specific types of men.

1. The homeless or damn near.

2. The nice-guy, professional baller AKA the high school nerd (doctors, attorneys, bankers, finance professionals, entrepreneurs, execs, etc).

Pretentious trust fund babies and other spoiled, arrogant men seem to enjoy the challenge of chasing me... but they gets no love! Someone has to say no!
 
Mai Tai said:
:lachen::lachen::lachen:The over 30 rappers are terrible aren't they? I'm like "What do you do to support yourself because until you start making money...Rapping is just a hobby sweetheart!"

I attract all kinds of men...but the ones that approach me that I turn down with the quickness are..

1. The pot-bellied "Sugar Daddies" who promise to spend their mortgage money on me.

I'm like..."Why would I want to be with a man that's dumb enough to sacrifice the roof over his head just to lace me with some Gucci?"


3. The men who like to consider themselves the CEO of some unheard of Fortune 500 company, and feel the need to list their accomplishments and get mad when they get what I call the "blank ****** stare."

I'm like..."If I was hiring, then I would ask for your resume. I'm just trying to enjoy my drink and you messing up my buzz!"
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Ha, yes! I hear you loud and clear! Love the blank ****** stare. Freaking buzzkills.
 
1. Africans (I look "African" but I'm not)
2. Drug dealers
3. Baby Daddies
4. Losers
5. Super nice guys that want me to walk a over them (I don't mind)

I'm in a LTR but when I'm done with this I want to alone for a while...LOL
 
Type 1: The African. Ghanaians, Nigerians, Ivorians, Cameroonians, you name it...
(Pretty much any foreigner of a darker complexion: Jamaican, Haitian, African, etc...I can't attract a US Citizen to save my life)

Type 2: The Hoodlum...aka the dude standin' on your corner that has a rap/freestyle video on youtube, a demo cd in his hand and is possibly name Shaheed. He sells dope for studio time.

Type 3: The Megalomaniac... "Yeah boo, I just did a song wit Nelly and Kanye rappin' on one of my beats" etc, etc.

Type 4: The Borderline Scary Romantic..."Oh my God I love you so much. I want you to be my wife and have my children. Please be mine forever." Mind you, this is all being said on date one.
 
1. Wealthy older White Males


That's okay, but I don't prefer White men. I want somebody of my own culture. Sigh........ Everybody else is rather intimidated, I guess. Shrugs.
 
Let's see-

teenaged boys and college dudes, and NOT at school!
older professionals - they usually have kids
bums - of course

That seems to be it. I may walk around with a blank stare on my face but I'm really nice. I haven't made much effort to go to a lot of places where men of my interest congregate.
 
Daeuiel said:
Jobless undesirables - yep the ones who try to talk to you on the train, or as you're going into the ladies room somewhere, clothes look a mess and have designs shaved into their hair :nono:
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Yep! Like I said in another thread, I'm wearing the Ring of Sauron (Lord of the Rings). You know when you're invisible to the ones you want when wearing the ring but only the undesirables can see you and make a beeline in your direction?:lachen:
 
I attract:
  • old married men
  • West Africans
  • dudes that are either flashy & arrogant or just arrogant.
Overall, most of them are a**holes. They are usually white collar professionals but when I'm in the hood or hood establishments, I tend to get a lot of d-boys :look:

For some reason, I also get a lot of scrawny white men between 5'7-5'9. Usually jewish. :perplexed
 
Extra weight= young thugs, older men(50 and up), Mexican men(I never understand it. I'm freaking 5'11 with heels almost 6'2 but Mexican men always trying to approach me. :giggle:)


10 pounds less= cops, male nurses, teachers, the garbage man , truck drivers, (I once had this dude stop his truck to talk to me. I :rolleyes: kept walking.)

20 pounds less= doctors, lawyers, heavy metal rockers, artists(painters)

I have dated so many types of guys at different weights.

I just hope my future husband loves me at all sizes. :ohwell:


Oh...men shorter than me approach me more than tall men.
 
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When I used to wear my hair braid/twist extensions I attracted:

  • Teenaged Little Gangstas
  • Early 20's to mid 20's Medium Gangstas in College
  • OLD MEN


When I used to date Online I attracted:
  • Lots of Older White Men
  • Lots of Intelligent Black-American Leos (It was weird most of them were Leos)
  • Young white gangsta types

Now that I mainly wear my hair in a natural curly shrunken fro. I attract:
  • Really OLD MEN
  • Africans (Mainly Nigerians)
  • Mostly Nobody lately
 
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Foreigners-white black etc

Hood dudes

Basically, everybody. I dont like the attention I get when I go out. Especially hispanic men....They give me this creepy stare.
 
Guy I'm with now (my fiance), Doctor

Guys I've turned down lately
--Film Distributor (more money than God, okay not really but closer lol and very established My sweetie jokes I could've been on a G6 instead of in first class)
--Engineer (Met on a plane actually in first class. With my sky miles I always get an upgrade. Owned a company with branches in different states from what his card said.)
--Some old money italian dude (basically he does nothing but spend his trust fund)
--Lawyer (Older by about 15 years one of the partners at his firm according to his card)
--Another Lawyer (closer to my age about five years older.)
 
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I don't know why but since I moved to Austin, I don't get approached as much as back in Houston. In Houston, people told me that I carried myself like a married woman (dunno what that means) but I know that I don't always smile or high 5 people wherever I go.

So far, I have attracted a school teacher, a business owner, a salesman, a cashier at Baskin Robbins (offered to take me to Sea World or Schlitterbahn or Six Flags or something of the sort).
 
Blackbird77 said:
Yep! Like I said in another thread, I'm wearing the Ring of Sauron (Lord of the Rings). You know when you're invisible to the ones you want when wearing the ring but only the undesirables can see you and make a beeline in your direction?:lachen:
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LMAO! I'm a LotR fan, this had me :rofl:
 
I work in the city and I typically attract city types; bankers, barristers, consultants and other white collar professions.
Age range is usually 30's. They are almost always white so no complaints here.
On weekends I attract middle class country boys.. or at least city boys who become country boys on the weekend.

The LOA is in full swing.
 
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Oh this is hilarious... Let's see..

Married men.. (any race.. White, black, brown) They are just greedy and want their wives and every girl around them.

A variety of white guys especially since I've been natural. And since I've gone natural...Black men don't approach me anymore... (hmmm)

Indian men .. A moderate amount. And I love them too...

Lately it's been messed up men who are just .. A waste of time.
 
afrochique said:
I don't know why but since I moved to Austin, I don't get approached as much as back in Houston. In Houston, people told me that I carried myself like a married woman (dunno what that means) but I know that I don't always smile or high 5 people wherever I go.

So far, I have attracted a school teacher, a business owner, a salesman, a cashier at Baskin Robbins (offered to take me to Sea World or Schlitterbahn or Six Flags or something of the sort).
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it means that they see you as defensive or stand offish..........
 
-Men that are married or already in a relationship

-Men that are in their mid 30's to mid 40's...I'm 25 :\

-Very creative and spiritual men. Yoga, Painting, Photography & Writer types.

-Actors and Men that mostly live in Hollywood.

-Men that don't want to get married or have children...Or they aren't sure that they want that yet.

-Very gorgeous model-esqe men, that get play from TOO many other women.
 
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