Fun thread: What type of men do you typically attract?

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FemmeFatale

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Not physically but professionally. I'll breakdown my last few guys..

Guy #1- Business Consultant
Guy #2- Attorney
Guy #3- High ranking law official
Guy #4- Attorney
Guy #5- Musician
Guy #6- 3rd yr law student
Guy #7- Detective with law degree

:lol: at least I'm somewhat destined to marry well.
 
Guys under 25!!!!!

Guys over 60!!!!

Professions UNKNOWN- The conversations dont get very far! LOL
 
The last few I have turned down.

#1 Professional Athlete
#2 Restaurant cook
#3 Street Pharmacist
#4 Music Producer


I attract all sorts, I think it is more of my location than anything, not too many professional types around these parts. I have always met the promising ones in other cities..
 
-aspiring rappers that are over the age of 30 :rolleyes:
-artist/poet that are cool, but broke (i'mma need you to get a day job!) :ohwell:
-goofy nerds (which i kinda like):look:
-young lil wayne type dudes (pants saggin & all) :rolleyes:
 
Extremely socially awkward nerds (I'm a comic book collector, nerds are awesome. But I need a guy to be able to talk to me and look me in the eye. :nono:)

Nerds who can talk but can't express any type of emotion (Had 3 fun dates with a guy. Last one ended with an awkward hug. He called me 2 days later to say woodenly that he had a good time. I told him it was hard for me to tell. :sad: I didn't call him again, he didn't call me. I met my current SO. But can you believe a year later the poor guy calls me saying he really had feeling for me but couldn't say?? :perplexed)

Jobless undesirables - yep the ones who try to talk to you on the train, or as you're going into the ladies room somewhere, clothes look a mess and have designs shaved into their hair :nono:
 
Last few guys:

-Corporate attorney
-Out of work lawyer
-IT guy
-Ibanker who also has a law degree
-Finance guys x 3
-Manager of a financial firm's mail room
-Street dude from another country supposedly involved in the film industry
 
ATLcutey20 said:
-aspiring rappers that are over the age of 30 :rolleyes:
-artist/poet that are cool, but broke (i'mma need you to get a day job!) :ohwell:
-goofy nerds (which i kinda like):look:
-young lil wayne type dudes (pants saggin & all) :rolleyes:
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:lachen::lachen::lachen:The over 30 rappers are terrible aren't they? I'm like "What do you do to support yourself because until you start making money...Rapping is just a hobby sweetheart!"

I attract all kinds of men...but the ones that approach me that I turn down with the quickness are..

1. The pot-bellied "Sugar Daddies" who promise to spend their mortgage money on me.

I'm like..."Why would I want to be with a man that's dumb enough to sacrifice the roof over his head just to lace me with some Gucci?"

2. The white boys with gold-teeth, cornrows, and wave caps.

I'm like "Seriously...why do you need the wave cap? Your hair has absolutely no curl pattern."

3. The men who like to consider themselves the CEO of some unheard of Fortune 500 company, and feel the need to list their accomplishments and get mad when they get what I call the "blank ****** stare."

I'm like..."If I was hiring, then I would ask for your resume. I'm just trying to enjoy my drink and you messing up my buzz!"
 
  1. Crazies
  2. Nice guys (the kind that "finish last" so I'm not really attracted to them)
  3. Boring guys
  4. Don Juan types (very charming and always has women after them heavy)
  5. Hilarious guys (my fav)
#1 & #3 the most unfortunately
 
FemmeFatale said:
Wow maybe the city does make the difference, I'm in the NYC metro area.
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So am I. There are a lot of Black guys here with great careers. You have to wade through them though to find one with great boyfriend/husband potential, b/c quite a few are on some Peter Pan/Casanova ish...
 
-musicians. I'm surrounded by them
-computer geeks, but then again, I'm a computer geek too lol
-strong silent men....even though I think I would prefer someone more aggressive
 
all types. some I can think of
-pro golfer
-factory worker
-engineers
-musician
-accountant
-salesman
-college students
-party promoter
 
Men
-mid level managers
-Asian college dudes
-really short white dudes in retail/sales :ohwell:

Women
-wanna be music producers/rappers/models who do not belong in their industry (and yall thought it was just men)
-Old white women :look:
 
Mortons said:
Men
-mid level managers
-Asian college dudes
-really short white dudes in retail/sales :ohwell:

Women
-wanna be music producers/rappers/models who do not belong in their industry (and yall thought it was just men)
-Old white women :look:
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Gracious! How do you deal?
 
Random guys really, they range from Drug Dealer to Executive :lachen:

Usually either South Americans, Indian men or White guys, me no likie
 
Corporate types in their 30-60s (and occasionally 80s :look:) and 20 year olds that do heaven knows what.

I'm married so I smile and keep it moving.
 
I attract all types and I do experience the verbal "pssts" and "what's up slim" when I am walking . However, I am usually approached by professionals. Last three:

#1 - Attorney
#2 - Engineer
#3 - Associate Exec. Director for a non-profit
 
1. Big Guys: O_O Seriously, they are always over 6 feet and if they aren't they're just really wide. The latest guy is a football player working on his PHD and he so friggin' big.

2. Daddy Type: Guys that want to take care of me. It's creepy. I 'm small, I have a little girl voice, and wear a lot a lace, bows, and flowers (just my style) so I'm always mistaken as a little girl (which is partly my fault because of the style I wear). My family thinks that these daddy-type guys have some sort of fetish. :blush:

3. Alpha Males: The aggressive leader ones. Not that I don't like that. :love: The football player guy mentioned above is Alpha.
 
:ohwell:unemployed bums
:spinning:middle eastern and indian men
:perplexedafrican men that stalk/follow me for blocks (i needz a taser:nono:)
:sad:street pharmacists
:ohwell:indian men (even when they are hypermasculine/misgynistic most times i find them to be effeminate and i usually don't find them attractive)
:drunk:goofy *** white men
:nono:potheads
:spinning: ugly men
:spinning: men with gold teeth or raggedy mouths
:spinning:hood types with baggy pants & cornrows
:sad:old geezers that could be my dad or grandad
:nono: men who cat call
:sad:alpha males ( i'm an alpha female so, this doesn't work)
:blush:fat bastids (they look at me like spareribs with pork-fried rice)
:ohwell:the doctors, execs, and upwardly mobile types tend to look at me but don't approach....the times that they have and i've dated them, they are usually a hot messin their personal life and socially inept/awkward.


y'all see why i'm single and celibate:look:

FYI: I don't carry myself in a desperate or "hood" type of way and I have natural hair. I am 5'11, medium build/pear-shaped and have a "donk". I know one of you are likely to say something slick about how I present myself. I also live in NYC.
 
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Hmm, lets think....:scratchch:

-Black men who are incredibily smart academically, but dumb as a box of rocks when it comes to relationships. :ohwell:
-Aspiring rappers/ songwriters/ producers/ club promoters who try to convince me that they'll be wildly successful and we'd be the ultimate power couple: a doctor and whatever he wants to be. :perplexed:
-Guys who are emotionally draining. :nono:
-White guys who are the "total package": attractive, smart, motivated, goal-directed, and think I'm "hot." :lol:
 
See: southerncitygirl's list. That's basically the same as mine. :perplexed Except without the nice doctors and execs and more hood rats and chavs.

Oh and a lot of British Chinese total package types for some reason.

Please note I'm married, but this doesn't seem to bother anyone.
 
ATLcutey20 said:
-aspiring rappers that are over the age of 30 :rolleyes:
-artist/poet that are cool, but broke (i'mma need you to get a day job!) :ohwell:
-goofy nerds (which i kinda like):look:
-young lil wayne type dudes (pants saggin & all) :rolleyes:
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It's an Atlanta thing :ohwell:

let's not forget the posers and over 35 party promoters.
 
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