goldensensation
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My mother told me that it wasnt a good idea to tell people what I was doing with my hair to make it healthier. Of course, this was after I had already told a step-cousin of mine.
About 8 months ago, we went over to her house for dinner and she commented on how my hair was looking healthier and getting lengthy. Naively, I began to tell her that I started taking vitamins and before I could tell her about my hair products and regimen, she started ranting and raving about these "magical vitamins". Okay, so 8 months passed and I saw her and her family last wednesday for a lunch...
Before she says hi to me, she goes "OH MY GOSH! Look at your hair! Those vitamins!". I blushed from embarrassment- there was a relative of theirs there that I had never met and my step-cousin was making this "big to do". She was all like "I cant believe it!"... I guess she really couldnt because she started feeling all through my hair (checking for tracks). She then tells this woman that I had never met that years ago, my hair would only grow as short as hers (which was somewhat of a lie) and that she is gonna start taking my "magic pills" so that she can get my magical growth.
AM I WRONG FOR BEING A LITTLE PISSED?
Yes, it is a compliment that she thinks that my hair looks great, but it isnt all about my vitamins. It's about the time that I put into my hair! The products! The care! She just refused to acknowledge that. She can take the vitamins all that she wants and she wont see substantial improvement.
From now on, I wont be sharing unless it is to someone in my immediate family (or on the board
).
Can any of you relate?
About 8 months ago, we went over to her house for dinner and she commented on how my hair was looking healthier and getting lengthy. Naively, I began to tell her that I started taking vitamins and before I could tell her about my hair products and regimen, she started ranting and raving about these "magical vitamins". Okay, so 8 months passed and I saw her and her family last wednesday for a lunch...
Before she says hi to me, she goes "OH MY GOSH! Look at your hair! Those vitamins!". I blushed from embarrassment- there was a relative of theirs there that I had never met and my step-cousin was making this "big to do". She was all like "I cant believe it!"... I guess she really couldnt because she started feeling all through my hair (checking for tracks). She then tells this woman that I had never met that years ago, my hair would only grow as short as hers (which was somewhat of a lie) and that she is gonna start taking my "magic pills" so that she can get my magical growth.
AM I WRONG FOR BEING A LITTLE PISSED?
Yes, it is a compliment that she thinks that my hair looks great, but it isnt all about my vitamins. It's about the time that I put into my hair! The products! The care! She just refused to acknowledge that. She can take the vitamins all that she wants and she wont see substantial improvement.
From now on, I wont be sharing unless it is to someone in my immediate family (or on the board
Can any of you relate?