Wow FL! You have had some wonderful progress even with the setbacks! You will be at BSL in no time at all!
Thanks Taz, I'm still praying I make it by the end of the year. You know I always say I'd kill for half the thickness you have.
In your original post you talk about all the products you use and how you deep condition, etc. What about how you are styling your hair? How often do you wash? Do you hear/feel a lot of hair popping when combing/brushing? Are you ends hard to keep moisturized and soft? All of these things will be factors in keeping the ends of your hair healthy and retaining length.
You are so right, that's just it, I try to baby my hair..... I don't do ponytail holders. That was the reason for the first setback with the ends. I was using Goodies ouchless bands. Very loosely mind you, and just basically twisting the hair around and tucking the ends under the band.
I haven't did this in forever. Now it's basically a clip that loosely keeps it up off my neck for everyday Or either I pin it in a frenchroll at night.
I sleep on a satin case, ans actually I don't comb my hair unless I detangling. Which is becoming harder BTW. I don't hear any hair poppin, and I have very little shedding. After my cowashes, I spray lightly with CHI keratin mist. This has helped me tremdelousy with gaining inches in the crown.
I moisturize and seal daily. As for washing, As I stated, I don't wash, well at least not with poo. I cowash, use a cleansing tea rinse, or Shikakai bar a few times a month.
I think my problem is coming from airdrying. I know this is the unpopular opinion, but after so long my hair seems to do better if it's blowdried and the roots stretched a bit. It's cool for the first 4 or 5 weeks in my stretch. But after that.
My hair is VERY coarse, and it's a
very sharp contrast between the newgrowth and the relaxed hair. Once again this is where my CHI helps with the line of demarcation, but I don't feel it's enough. I don't do long stretches for this very reason.
Also, after about 6 weeks, my hair does seem to crave a
ton of moisture, and using the sulfur intensifies this. I must admit the ceramides do help when I can remember to prepoo with them.
Are you still doing the EVOO and WGO?
I think I'm going to experiment with not cowashing as often and using a little heat further into the stretch.
Your ends are as healthy as any that I've seen. I think you're experiencing lead hairs, is all. You're bound to have the fullness you seek when your top layers reach your bottom layers.
I think your V grew in fuller after you cut it. The first time it was more like a tail, almost. And now it's fuller, getting closer to a U. Keep up the great work!
Thanks, yeah I noticed that also. I'm sure you are right about the other hair catching up. I'm hoping this will eventually give me the fullness I want.