TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
I'll just say this... I am reminded why I HATE dating. I am so upset that I have to go through this stage AGAIN!!
... I finally got some interest from someone under 50 from the United States on Match.com. We communicated over email for a while, and talked on the phone a couple of times, and last night I agreed to meet him at a restaurant.
He suggested we meet at a sports bar to watch the NCAA final game. I had no problem with that because I am a huge sports fan. First, he lied about his height. The guy was a shrimp, yet I digress... So we get to the sports bar, and he complains about the noise (It's a SPORTS BAR), He asks the waitress to reseat us three times because of it. As we reviewed the menu, he voiced his disappointment that they didn't have a "heart healthy" section on it (It's a SPORTS BAR). I don't think many sports bars offer Whey Protein Shakes! I purposely let him order first, because I wanted to see what he would get. Of course, a plain turkey sandwich and water... are you kidding me? He then proceeds to tell me that's why he doesn't eat out because he can't monitor his diet. He bragged about eating practically the same menu for two years!!!!! Granted, he had a nice body, but LIGHTEN UP!!! I work out a lot, too, but there is something called balance. I was expecting to have wings and beer on game night...
So as this painful date progressed, I felt like I had to carry on most of the conversation and I had to be more reserved because I didn't want to scare the poor man. Who responds to your team scoring with a golf clap?![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
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Then I realized how much I missed my ex as I was sitting there. We would have had SO much fun watching the game, eating junk food and cheering...
So, I am now wondering if I was just nit-picking this guy to death because he wasn't my ex. He was a nice guy, but just seemed REALLY up tight. So, he called me afterwards and said he had a really good time. I am on the fence about going on a second date with him, but I do want to at least give him a fair chance. Maybe he was just nervous...
So, Should I or shouldn't I? At this point, I am really not feeling the guy, but several ladies on this board said they weren't feeling their SO's at first. Advice PLEASE!
... I finally got some interest from someone under 50 from the United States on Match.com. We communicated over email for a while, and talked on the phone a couple of times, and last night I agreed to meet him at a restaurant.
He suggested we meet at a sports bar to watch the NCAA final game. I had no problem with that because I am a huge sports fan. First, he lied about his height. The guy was a shrimp, yet I digress... So we get to the sports bar, and he complains about the noise (It's a SPORTS BAR), He asks the waitress to reseat us three times because of it. As we reviewed the menu, he voiced his disappointment that they didn't have a "heart healthy" section on it (It's a SPORTS BAR). I don't think many sports bars offer Whey Protein Shakes! I purposely let him order first, because I wanted to see what he would get. Of course, a plain turkey sandwich and water... are you kidding me? He then proceeds to tell me that's why he doesn't eat out because he can't monitor his diet. He bragged about eating practically the same menu for two years!!!!! Granted, he had a nice body, but LIGHTEN UP!!! I work out a lot, too, but there is something called balance. I was expecting to have wings and beer on game night...
So as this painful date progressed, I felt like I had to carry on most of the conversation and I had to be more reserved because I didn't want to scare the poor man. Who responds to your team scoring with a golf clap?
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Then I realized how much I missed my ex as I was sitting there. We would have had SO much fun watching the game, eating junk food and cheering...
So, I am now wondering if I was just nit-picking this guy to death because he wasn't my ex. He was a nice guy, but just seemed REALLY up tight. So, he called me afterwards and said he had a really good time. I am on the fence about going on a second date with him, but I do want to at least give him a fair chance. Maybe he was just nervous...
So, Should I or shouldn't I? At this point, I am really not feeling the guy, but several ladies on this board said they weren't feeling their SO's at first. Advice PLEASE!