luthiengirlie
Well-Known Member
I want Godly female friendships... I'm fustrated... because I am really trying to be friends with other women of God and initiate friendships. But i feel like I"m . Usually what happens is, I initiate it, maybe even plan an outing with the person and then they stand me up harder than men do! I feel like a lot of times I'm trying to be friends with a person especially that are in the Lord I'm always hearing" Men this Men that, Men in purple pants, men in greenp ants, why are they so horrible, why do they do this, men are awful" it's like it's all MEN MEN MEN! Don't get me wrong, I like to talk about guys too but it's not my entire REALITY! I don't know. I often feel like as well as long as you talk about THEM and their MEN problems they wanna hear what you have to say... but the MINUTE I try to talk about myself or something else or ask for encouragement. They wanna shut down and NOT hear what i have to say.
I am really frustrated
and I'm really sad.
I have plenty of male friends and I THANK GOD FOR THEM! but I often wonder if I'm not truly meant to be friends with women... cause every relationship i have with a woman outside of my family is very superficial and I would love to have a female best friend. I didn't realize how much this bothered me and I feel like crying now.... I done depressed myself.
Any Suggestions? anything?
I am really frustrated
and I'm really sad.
I have plenty of male friends and I THANK GOD FOR THEM! but I often wonder if I'm not truly meant to be friends with women... cause every relationship i have with a woman outside of my family is very superficial and I would love to have a female best friend. I didn't realize how much this bothered me and I feel like crying now.... I done depressed myself.
Any Suggestions? anything?