NYLegalNewbie
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In the past year, I've realized that some things which I believed to be "dealbreakers" really were not.
The first was height. When I was on match.com and other dating sites, I would always put my desired height as being between 5'10 and 6'4" (I'm about 5'5"). However, I met this guy who I dated for a few months who was a scant 5'6". I was unbelievably attracted to him and it threw me for a loop.
The second was whether or not a guy was a non-smoker. I used to think that there was NO WAY I was going to date a smoker. Ewww. Gross. Not happening.
Well, paint me a little liar because the guy I'm nuts about right now indulges in puffing on some ciggies. However, he apparently found out that one of his "dealbreakers" really wasn't one either - he's a vegetarian and he swore that he wouldn't date women who ate meat (not too hard to find lots of vegetarian women in NY, they're quite common). Me, I'm practically a carnivore. LOL! Just kidding...but I do love steak.
Anyone else had similar discoveries?
The first was height. When I was on match.com and other dating sites, I would always put my desired height as being between 5'10 and 6'4" (I'm about 5'5"). However, I met this guy who I dated for a few months who was a scant 5'6". I was unbelievably attracted to him and it threw me for a loop.
The second was whether or not a guy was a non-smoker. I used to think that there was NO WAY I was going to date a smoker. Ewww. Gross. Not happening.
Well, paint me a little liar because the guy I'm nuts about right now indulges in puffing on some ciggies. However, he apparently found out that one of his "dealbreakers" really wasn't one either - he's a vegetarian and he swore that he wouldn't date women who ate meat (not too hard to find lots of vegetarian women in NY, they're quite common). Me, I'm practically a carnivore. LOL! Just kidding...but I do love steak.
Anyone else had similar discoveries?