I think this belongs in this forum or maybe 'Off topic'. I can't decide so here it is.
I was talking to a 2ple of male friends the other day. One has a baby with an ex. the other is separated with 3 kids, soon to be divorced.
Here's the thing, the 1st guy, his baby’s mother won't let him see the child, no photo's nothing, just one the day she was born and that’s it. I think the kids nearly one now but she demands huge amounts of money from him. He always pays up cos he feels that way his kids being taken care of. The 2nd guy, well he had a nervous breakdown and is now just coming off medication cos of the stress of his ex not letting him see his kids once he moved out.
I accept some father's who don't act responsibly towards their children probably should stay away to avoid disruption in their kids lives but I really can't understand why some women are vindictive to the point where they deny their kids access to the dad bcos they're hurting cos the feel dumped. How do they explain the absence of the dad when the kid is old enough to ask?
There's an organisation here in the UK called Justice for Dad's where fathers are fighting the courts vehemently to be allowed access to see their kids. Sometimes the world seems like such an unfair place
It puzzles me.
I was talking to a 2ple of male friends the other day. One has a baby with an ex. the other is separated with 3 kids, soon to be divorced.
Here's the thing, the 1st guy, his baby’s mother won't let him see the child, no photo's nothing, just one the day she was born and that’s it. I think the kids nearly one now but she demands huge amounts of money from him. He always pays up cos he feels that way his kids being taken care of. The 2nd guy, well he had a nervous breakdown and is now just coming off medication cos of the stress of his ex not letting him see his kids once he moved out.
I accept some father's who don't act responsibly towards their children probably should stay away to avoid disruption in their kids lives but I really can't understand why some women are vindictive to the point where they deny their kids access to the dad bcos they're hurting cos the feel dumped. How do they explain the absence of the dad when the kid is old enough to ask?
There's an organisation here in the UK called Justice for Dad's where fathers are fighting the courts vehemently to be allowed access to see their kids. Sometimes the world seems like such an unfair place
It puzzles me.