Silkycoils
Well-Known Member
I absolutely HATE these!!!! These are when someone texts you first, you respond, and they don't respond. They never close out the conversation. I find this incredibly annoying, and somewhat triggering, quite frankly. Like, DON'T even engage me if you can't properly close out the conversation. I feel this is very common among flop-boys . . .like they send mass texts to see who responds.
I'm on a moratorium from blocking folks (I'm seriously trying to deal with my rejection issues. Although 99.9% justified, blocking cuts people off before they have the chance to "hurt" you.), but I had to put this guy's text notifications on silent. He did a drive-by text today and it annoyed me greatly. We connected on match.com (I know, I know ), and we have great and long phone conversations (I have to be the one to get off), but I get controlling teas from him, not to mention a bit of emotional unavailability. I wouldn't mind having him as a friend, but then you have to be careful of that because these emotionally unavoidable/narcs will try to charm their way in. I'm listening to my gut!
I'm on a moratorium from blocking folks (I'm seriously trying to deal with my rejection issues. Although 99.9% justified, blocking cuts people off before they have the chance to "hurt" you.), but I had to put this guy's text notifications on silent. He did a drive-by text today and it annoyed me greatly. We connected on match.com (I know, I know ), and we have great and long phone conversations (I have to be the one to get off), but I get controlling teas from him, not to mention a bit of emotional unavailability. I wouldn't mind having him as a friend, but then you have to be careful of that because these emotionally unavoidable/narcs will try to charm their way in. I'm listening to my gut!
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