ackee walk
Well-Known Member
Every couple of months or so, my SO needs to travel for work. He manages a team of engineers worldwide. He may be gone for as little as 10 days (which is the case now as he's headed off to San Francisco) or a whole month. The extra layer of difficulty with my SO is because he has ADHD, he is not very good with keeping in touch when he is very busy and needs to focus on work. So there's the combination of not seeing him for extended periods of time and not speaking with him often. This is the first time he'll be traveling since we've been together and I need to figure out how/if I can handle this.
Any ladies here whose SO/DH travels a lot for work? How do you handle the time apart? What does he do or what do you do to make you feel comfortable and/or trust that everything is on the up and up while you two are apart? If you've been in the relationship/married for a while, tell me what dealing with the frequent traveling was like when the relationship/marriage was new. And by the off chance that your SO/DH has ADHD AND travels a lot for work (lol I did say off chance), I'd especially love to hear your thoughts.
Any ladies here whose SO/DH travels a lot for work? How do you handle the time apart? What does he do or what do you do to make you feel comfortable and/or trust that everything is on the up and up while you two are apart? If you've been in the relationship/married for a while, tell me what dealing with the frequent traveling was like when the relationship/marriage was new. And by the off chance that your SO/DH has ADHD AND travels a lot for work (lol I did say off chance), I'd especially love to hear your thoughts.