Does of you who are married: Did you meet your Dh when you....

[BlackHairDiva]

Those of you who are married: Did you meet your Dh when you....

Those of you who are married, did you meet your husband when you were actually happy with your life?

I reached a a point in my life where I'm clearly not happy with my life at all . My job brings the worst out of me! There are days like today where I left work severely angry.I was only there doing over time for 4 hours. I was steamed because I have some rude bi***h*s for supervisors. They don't want to do their jobs at all! Its annoying.

On top of that, I hate where I live, I hate the people to... its like I just don't get a long with them at all!!! I've never experienced anything like this in my life!

I'm also not happy where I am career wise. I'm reflecting as to how this is affecting me not only career wise but over all in other aspects of my life. Maybe this is why I haven't meet the man of my life. Could it be things will turn around once I'm happier career wise ,etc???

 

[Amcd]

I met my husband when I was 19, in college and pretty happy with myself. I have found that a negative mindset in one area of your life can spill over into all other areas of your life. When my mother was diagnosed with cancer I found myself getting shorter and shorter with my kids the more I stressed about her. I did not even realize I was doing it until my husband pointed it out to me. I had to make a conscious effort to change my ways.

When you become happier with yourself and your life circumstances you will reflect that back to the world. Make the effort to change what you don't like about yourself and your job, it will make all the difference in YOUR life. If a man comes with that it's gravy.

 

[nursenappy]

I was happy with my life, doing well career wise, good friends, but I was lonely on the companionship tip.

 

[Bmack]

Yes, I was quite happy.

 

[snillohsss]

I met my husband when I was a teenager, so I was happy by default. No bills, living at home, still in high school. I didn't earn the right to be unhappy yet! LOL! Definitely my soulmate!

 

[~~HoneyComb~~]

Yep

I was so happy and content with my life that I blew him off initially because I wasn't ready for a relationship. A few years afterwards is when we finally started officially dating.

 

[mrselle]

I was 18 years old and a freshman in college. I was all bright-eyed and innocent and just ready for what the world had to offer.

 

[lushcoils]

I asked a similar question in this thread and got some interesting answers: when-you-first-met-dated-your-husband-so-what-your-overall-state-well-being.html

Hope this gives you some insight.

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

Interesting answers. Keep the coming ladies I'm enjoying reading the responses.

 

[hopeful]

Yep . I was very happy. A freshman in college. I was so happy and excited about life it was ridiculous.

 

[Lucie]

Yes, I was happy as hayell actually, LOL!

 

[Imani]

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[Mrs. N Lugo]

I was not happy being single at all. I was ready to be a wife. I was happy with everything else, but the single part not so much. I would pray for hours at a time(sometimes in tears), asking God to bless me with my husband and I prayed for discernment to know it was him when he came. God answered all my prayers.

 

[caltron]

Yes I was pretty happy with my life when I met dh. I had kicked a loser on-and-off bf of 10 years to the curb. I was going out a lot, travelling, and doing new things. My life is very different now and I'm happy in a different way. I guess it's all about enjoying what you have when you have it.

 

[itismehmmkay]

Good question