exoticmommie
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I use to be able to talk to my mom and my sisters (I still kinda can with one of my sisters but she is very very busy so I barely talk to her anymore). I was happy to be on a hair journey with them. But now they aren't interested anymore. I believe that they were thinking that 1, their hair would grow over night, and 2,that they could put very little work in and have the same progress I had. But I put a lot of work in. Unless your hair is already in good condition (which mine was not), you will have to put a lot of work in. I keep trying to tell them that once they get there they can take it easy after that. My mom does be tired a lot, because of work. She told me she hasn't done anything to her hair in 3 weeks. I tried to tell her a few little things to do a while back and she wasn't interested. I heard my dad in the background say something about washing her hair more often, and washing every 2-3 days, and she said "well you need to go get you a white girl!!" I was like but mom I was my hair that often.
Another reason I don't believe they are interested anymore is because they don't believe my hair will get any longer than this. I told my mom I am aiming for midback length and she just laughed, one of those big A-HA-HA!! laughs.
And my other sister eventually just told me she will believe that what I am doing is worth it when my hair gets mbl which in her words means, ain't gonna happen.
I don't talk to my friends because they don't ask. One of my friends hair is very long but far from healthy and I know she would look at me like I had a third eye if I were to bring up hair talk. Like "you talking to me?" She has complimented my hair but that to me is not an invitation to start talking hair.
DH has been a trooper and has been tolerating it since I don't have anyone else now. Don't know how long that will last.
Soooo, does anyone else feel lonely In Real Life on this hair journey?
Another reason I don't believe they are interested anymore is because they don't believe my hair will get any longer than this. I told my mom I am aiming for midback length and she just laughed, one of those big A-HA-HA!! laughs.
And my other sister eventually just told me she will believe that what I am doing is worth it when my hair gets mbl which in her words means, ain't gonna happen.
I don't talk to my friends because they don't ask. One of my friends hair is very long but far from healthy and I know she would look at me like I had a third eye if I were to bring up hair talk. Like "you talking to me?" She has complimented my hair but that to me is not an invitation to start talking hair.
DH has been a trooper and has been tolerating it since I don't have anyone else now. Don't know how long that will last.
Soooo, does anyone else feel lonely In Real Life on this hair journey?