Oasis
grabbing life by the pussy
Who hurt you?!
clever.
Who hurt you?!
OP, are you equally disturbed by men controlling their wives like children?
PLEASE TELL ME YOURE RID OF THE INDIAN.clever.
This reminds me of a third marriage that I've witnessed. I think he purposely messes up the laundry (turns everything red) so he won't have to do it...and it works. She does all the laundry now.
That doesn't work here. DH does the laundry. I won't do it myself or even ask him to do it, which did mean I had to purchase new underwear once.
Just like that old Bill Cosby sketch about how men are the geniuses of the family. They mess things up on purpose so that they won't be asked to do them anymore!
I have noticed this especially with a friend of mine. She is 17 1/2 years OLDER than her husband. She's in her late 40s, he's in his early 30s. I hear her talking to him in a firm tone take the trash out, don't leave those prints on the refrigerator, counting every penny he spends, giving him a gas & food allowance from the joint account, etc. I was at their house party recently, he opened a bag of bbq potato chips and she said to him very loud and firm in front of a group of people 'that won't get your body where you want it to be. Didn't you just tell me you wanted to bulk up." He politely put the chips back up. LoL That reminded me of a momma/child relationship. I thought it was just the age difference. Maybe it is common. It's not what I would want.
Exactly.^^^ I think the issue is when women marry younger they don't realize how important it is to them that the man be handy or at least feel more responsible for certain things. There are just some things you don't recognize as a problem until after you are married and living in a home. Even living in an apartment it may not be obvious because apartments often have a maintenance guy. Some men act like changing a lightbulb is a big imposition, but they don't reveal that side of themselves until later. Just like women hide certain aspects of themselves, so do men.