NaturalLibra
Well-Known Member
I'll preface this by saying I've never been in a relationship romantic or sexual so whenever I say I don't want kids I usually get the automatic "you'll meet the right person and change your mind response"
While i can't predict the future I think my decision is Reasonably thought out. I just don't feel I have the personality that would handle having anyone so dependent on me for the rest of my life and even when their children are grown parents don't have it easy at all. I also think it would be a huge mistake to compromise my decision and Have a child for the sake of my future husband but it worries me in how to handle relationships as most men who don't have kids already seem to want one.
Those of you who don't want children for please share your reasons or thoughts such as
- do you think you'll feel the same in 10, 15 even 20 years ( I know it's impossible to know for sure)
- has it ever been an issue in a relationship? How would you deal with letting a potential SO know? Under any circumstance would you change your mind for your spouse.
And pretty much anything else related you wanna add.
Thanks ladies!
While i can't predict the future I think my decision is Reasonably thought out. I just don't feel I have the personality that would handle having anyone so dependent on me for the rest of my life and even when their children are grown parents don't have it easy at all. I also think it would be a huge mistake to compromise my decision and Have a child for the sake of my future husband but it worries me in how to handle relationships as most men who don't have kids already seem to want one.
Those of you who don't want children for please share your reasons or thoughts such as
- do you think you'll feel the same in 10, 15 even 20 years ( I know it's impossible to know for sure)
- has it ever been an issue in a relationship? How would you deal with letting a potential SO know? Under any circumstance would you change your mind for your spouse.
And pretty much anything else related you wanna add.
Thanks ladies!