Do you have game?

[kandake]

Mai Tai's post made me think about "The Rules" to certain extent that could be interpreted as game.

 

[Kalani]

I don't have endurance when it comes to my game. I can be all the things in the Mai Tai's post as long as I'm not really feeling the guy. Once I'm feeling him I get all high schoolish...LOL

So some insight on maintaining long-term game would be interesting to read about.

See this is my problem too! And I would definitely like to learn about maintaining long-term game.

 

[Mimi22]

Baby...I got so much game, Michael Jordan got my name on speedial! I never have a shortage of male attention when I go out...and I NEVER approach men.

A woman with game is (according to me)...
1. Confident in the way she carries herself. She speaks with conviction, has a nice demeanor. She is never nasty to people. She is not necessarily the most attractive woman in world, but she makes the best of what she has, fixes herself up, and is never jealous of the next woman.
2. Never thirsty for male attention. She knows how to flirt, but does not come across as desperate for a date. Believe it or not, but, when you go out, you are being watched, and when a man sees you turn down other guys (nicely), it sometimes increases their confidence to approach you.
3. Is never a wall flower. There is nothing worse then a beautiful woman who gets all dolled up, just to go out, sit/stand with her arms crossed, and coldly stare at those around her. A woman with game is smiling, laughing, having a great time while maintaining self respect. When a man approaches a woman with game, if she is interested, she can make him feel like he just found a needle in the haystack by smiling, being a good listener, and being able to talk about more then herself. If she is not interested, she is able to let the guy know without being mean. I have had guys buy me drinks, or pay for my food even after I told them I wasn't interested. All because I was still nice to them. (Unfortunately, this only works with certain men. There are some that you have to tell to f-ck off, but most men handle rejection well if you do it with a smile).
4. Maintains an amount of mystery. Don't start talking about your daddy-issues, or how your ex-man wasn't sh-t on the first date. When getting dressed to go out if you are going to show cleavage, then cover the legs. If you want your legs out, then tone down the cleavage. A woman with boobs, legs, and butt on display appear thirsty, and men can sense the desperation a mile away. Thirsty women attract a certain man that is typically not worth the ground he walks on.

I hope this helps...

thank ya!

 

[ADB]

I have natural game, meaning I don't have to try. Since I'm married now I have to tone that down by not looking the opposite sex in the eye to long or keeping conversations short and sweet so that they no I'm not interested.

 

[jade998]

See this is my problem too! And I would definitely like to learn about maintaining long-term game.

Yeah, I would need to know this. There is a guy who I am digging at the moment and when he is close I can act a fool, but guys I don't like, I have game.

Maybe I need to think of him, like someone I don't like and see how that goes.

 

[Makenzie]

 

[NuBraveHeart]

Who needs game when you've got boobs!?

dang... still a proud member of the IBTC!

Boobs and nice hair lol.

if i can get this hair thing down, i'm half there...

A woman with game is (according to me)...
1. Confident in the way she carries herself. She speaks with conviction, has a nice demeanor. She is never nasty to people. She is not necessarily the most attractive woman in world, but she makes the best of what she has, fixes herself up, and is never jealous of the next woman.
2. Never thirsty for male attention. She knows how to flirt, but does not come across as desperate for a date. Believe it or not, but, when you go out, you are being watched, and when a man sees you turn down other guys (nicely), it sometimes increases their confidence to approach you.
3. Is never a wall flower. There is nothing worse then a beautiful woman who gets all dolled up, just to go out, sit/stand with her arms crossed, and coldly stare at those around her. A woman with game is smiling, laughing, having a great time while maintaining self respect. When a man approaches a woman with game, if she is interested, she can make him feel like he just found a needle in the haystack by smiling, being a good listener, and being able to talk about more then herself. If she is not interested, she is able to let the guy know without being mean. I have had guys buy me drinks, or pay for my food even after I told them I wasn't interested. All because I was still nice to them. (Unfortunately, this only works with certain men. There are some that you have to tell to f-ck off, but most men handle rejection well if you do it with a smile).
4. Maintains an amount of mystery. Don't start talking about your daddy-issues, or how your ex-man wasn't sh-t on the first date. When getting dressed to go out if you are going to show cleavage, then cover the legs. If you want your legs out, then tone down the cleavage. A woman with boobs, legs, and butt on display appear thirsty, and men can sense the desperation a mile away. Thirsty women attract a certain man that is typically not worth the ground he walks on.

I hope this helps...

sista, you speaka da troof. we must have graduated from the same school of game. nice analysis.

 

[aribell]

I don't have endurance when it comes to my game. I can be all the things in the Mai Tai's post as long as I'm not really feeling the guy. Once I'm feeling him I get all high schoolish...LOL

Yeah, I got game. But it's kinda contrary to the rest of my personality and I definitely understand the bolded. I get tired of it really quickly, since I'm much more of a forthright, open kind of person and look for that in people I want to be with.

Who needs game when you've got boobs!?

Well, some of us have to compensate in that arena!

 

[arosieworld]

I have no game and I get flustered when a guy I like talks to me. Its quite pathetic really. Kind of a no win, no win situation.

 

[daydreem2876]

dang... still a proud member of the IBTC!

Well, some of us have to compensate in that arena!

Its not really about the size of them at all. Some men like them big, others small. They like what they like. As long as you have a good bra that props those puppies up where they are supposed to be and the right top you are good to go!

Add that with + your best "that girl" smile + the "look" =

It may not attract all the men but it will attract those that are interested in you!