toosexy1 said:sometimes i dont even comb my hair when i CO wash. so its not manipulation for me
Yes I do....the more I CO wash the more tangled my hair becomes....and airdrying is out of the question unless my hair is braided.
Yes I do....the more I CO wash the more tangled my hair becomes....and airdrying is out of the question unless my hair is braided.
Got milk, for him I would become a lactating mother again! WHOOOO CHILE! That's a fine man right there!
Anyway, I rinse my hair daily and my hair is thicker and thriving. I think it's how you handle the hair. I let the water run over it from the shower and open in parts to let it saturate. Then I squeeze the water out. Not wring it out, just ball it up in a ball and squeeze. If you scrub the heck out of your scalp and scrunch and scrub a lot, maybe that's too much manipulation. You can't be afraid to take care of your hair. If you treat it likes it's fragile, then it will be fragile, treat it like it's healthy and it will be. This doesn't mean snatch and pull, but don't be afraid to take care of it...
I'm so through with you, too.![]()
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See, it's not the washing, really, that does it - its the certain tangling the second it's no longer under water/drenched in conditioner/ that's a problem.
My hair shrinks up so fast I think I can hear it, sometimes.![]()
Totally OT, but WHO is that tall drank of chocolate milk in your siggy?????![]()
Child, child, CHIIIIILLLLLLLDDDDD, but he is fione.![]()
Got milk, for him I would become a lactating mother again! WHOOOO CHILE! That's a fine man right there!
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I thought maybe ya'll were exaggerating, so I went to page 2 to take a looksey, oh my goodness that really is delicious looking man.
I'm going to have to cosign with this. I tried several times to wash frequently and it is just not possible for my hair unless I want dreadlocks. I've tried:
1) not combing at all. Wow, insta-dreds! It is scary. I don't know if I can hear it like Kiya, but I be watching it. It looks like those time lapse videos of beans growing, except in reverse.Actually, I'm exaggerating a bit because the truth is that water can't make my hair straight or even really stretched, even if I'm standing direction under the shower. Naturalgurl, I still remember when you said your hair reaches bsl when wet in the shower. Which is totally awesome but also totally different from me. Even when my hair was just touching the very top of my bra, water couldn't stretch it more than maybe an inch past my shoulders, if that. it remained an afro, just wet.
2) finger combing each time. takes forever, and i still get dreads, though now it takes me 2 or 3 days to get them instead of 1. even with no dreads, lots of tangles.
3) combing with a wide tooth comb. takes about 10 minutes at the fastest, definitely cuts down on tangling, but lost noticeable length in just 2 weeks of this regimen, i estimate around 1/2".
It's not the washing per se, it's what has to happen after the washing for hair like mine. Believe me, I'd love to wash a lot more often, but I just can't do it and keep my hair, or at least keep it loose. So yes, washing every day is too much manipulation for me. But you have to find what's right for your hair.