MrsAriannaAmbers
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I did try it out, but I also forgot to mention that I am REALLY shy. So although I may not have looked as mean, I couldn't get myself to look directly at the faces. Idk why but when I know a lot of men are around and I have to walk pass them, I look down or I just look ahead like they aren't even there. I guess that could pose a problem lol
But on the bright side, while I was standing outside of class yesterday, this one guy did approach me in a way. I was looking hella confused because I had no clue what I was gonna eat for lunch and he was like "You looking for me?" In my mind I was like But it did make me feel nice inside for once
Gurl, that's a first step and you should feel awesome!!! Now try this, (I learned from one of my model type chick friend) when you know you have to walk in front of some guys, she say pick one from afar and when you walk in front of them...smile, wink, and if you get a smile back, just wave hello...small cute, flirty wave.
That head down thing is like saying "the floor is way more interesting." Which it really isn't. Also when walking in front of a group of people, think positive, laugh, keep it light.
Because I work in a call center I get to practice this all the time so when I am out and about its like second nature to me. So, in my head, I be telling myself "gurl you are too fine today!", hmph you handled that customer!, gurl did she wear them metallic leggings with that windbreaker jacket and them snow boots???no-she didn't...Something that has me feeling good on the inside seems to me to naturally show on the outside.
Its called put a smile in your voice! Have you ever called customer service and talked to someone who sounded like he/she had my life sucks face!?! That person because of their attitude can often times make you feel like I never ever want to talk to that person again...versus speaking to someone who sounds like their smiling and "enjoying what they do" face, its a world of a difference! I hear all the time "why in the hell you always smiling???" I feel that positive people gravitate towards positivity and I get what I invite...if I stay with an attitude, negativity and drama somehow thats what will attract to me but if I manage to stay positive, upbeat and pleasant thats what I get in return.
So the first step is to smile and work on eye contact as its gonna be key as you graduate and get out into the workforce/network. Practice with all the wrong ones, meaning if a "not your type" gives a compliment, say thanks and make small talk...then say well nice chit-chat and KIM. HTH