Divorced and Loving It

[reallynow]

Congrats to you and welcome back!!!

 

[prettykinks]

Congratulations!!!!!!! The only thing that matters is that you are happy now.

 

[gloomgeisha]

I'm so happy for you. I know people who were so unhappy after their divorce...they werent much happier in the relationship either.
Let the good times roll!

I just don't understand that, but then again, I too had to battle with the whole co-dependency thing. Because being miserable in a relationship doesn't seem like love, it seems like fear of being alone. How long did I complain about this relationship guys...1 1/2-2 years? But I still married him. I still went through all the motions because in my mind it was better to have someone than no one. erplexed

I was being unfair to both of us and in the end, I think I would have saved both of us many sleepless nights, pointless arguments, and misspoken words had I just called it quits the moment I couldn't think of the last time we really enjoyed each other's company. *sigh*

But you live and learn.

 

[crlsweetie912]

I just don't understand that, but then again, I too had to battle with the whole co-dependency thing. Because being miserable in a relationship doesn't seem like love, it seems like fear of being alone. How long did I complain about this relationship guys...1 1/2-2 years? But I still married him. I still went through all the motions because in my mind it was better to have someone than no one. erplexed

I was being unfair to both of us and in the end, I think I would have saved both of us many sleepless nights, pointless arguments, and misspoken words had I just called it quits the moment I couldn't think of the last time we really enjoyed each other's company. *sigh*

But you live and learn.

Girl, it takes a lot of courage to do what you did. You took a BIG GIRL PILL and did what was right for you. Some people linger in those types of relationships for DECADES and end up "living" most of their lives unhappily!
Congratulations.