prettypuff1
New Member
This is why i don't usually date.
So this past Tuesday I went out with a guy that i have known for a long time. I have liked him since I first met him almost 2 years ago, but I am just now getting to going out with him. We went out to a medical school talk and then we went out for dinner and drinks afterwards. It was good conversation the whole night and I really felt good about it. When we got back to the car ( he drove), we started kissing and well we got very physical this night... We were together most of the night and I thought we were at least on the path to dating...
Well i was wrong; when i talked to him yesterday and i asked him what was going on between us, and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to be friends with benefits..... Needless to say, I am quite disappointed in how this shaped up. Now i am all for the friends with benefits situation, particularly when i don't see any long term potential in the guy. But this time, I actually do like this guy( although that is fading fast). I always got the impression that he was a really nice well rounded individual, particularly when dealing with other people. I really thought that i had gotten to know this guy, and now i am just disappointed in how this turned out. I know that i got to physical with him to fast but i did think that i had gotten to know him enough.
I know what i need to do, I want to take it back to just being friends. I know that i want more with him than what he wants and i don't want to be hurt by this....
I need some advice, or hugs or similar situations pleaze!!!
So this past Tuesday I went out with a guy that i have known for a long time. I have liked him since I first met him almost 2 years ago, but I am just now getting to going out with him. We went out to a medical school talk and then we went out for dinner and drinks afterwards. It was good conversation the whole night and I really felt good about it. When we got back to the car ( he drove), we started kissing and well we got very physical this night... We were together most of the night and I thought we were at least on the path to dating...
Well i was wrong; when i talked to him yesterday and i asked him what was going on between us, and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to be friends with benefits..... Needless to say, I am quite disappointed in how this shaped up. Now i am all for the friends with benefits situation, particularly when i don't see any long term potential in the guy. But this time, I actually do like this guy( although that is fading fast). I always got the impression that he was a really nice well rounded individual, particularly when dealing with other people. I really thought that i had gotten to know this guy, and now i am just disappointed in how this turned out. I know that i got to physical with him to fast but i did think that i had gotten to know him enough.
I know what i need to do, I want to take it back to just being friends. I know that i want more with him than what he wants and i don't want to be hurt by this....
I need some advice, or hugs or similar situations pleaze!!!