Differences in lifestyle...rant/advice (long)

[Incognitus]

PopLife Did you end up actually leaving him or did it work out?

 

[PopLife]

@PopLife Did you end up actually leaving him or did it work out?

Incognitus

Yes, we are still together and have been doing well. Basically I got to the point where I didn't care what he thought...I can't change who I am and either he was going to accept me for me or move on (ain't nobody putting a gun up to your head to be with me )....let's just say he got with the program.

Honestly it seems like the less I care and concentrate on me the more the relationship progresses...go figure.

 

[ladysaraii]

I just read this (great thread btw, I'm an introvert and I worry about this myself)

From everything that I've been reading about relationships, the common takeaway seems to be put yourself first and do you. Glad to see this works in practice.