calmsensual1
New Member
I'm currently going through a situation with my boyfriend and its VERY likely that he may be going to the caribbean for medical school.
He and I have NEVER had any problems during our relationship. I'd known him for about 6 months before we got together and we've been together about 6 months...so we're actually FRIENDS as well as bf/gf. I made a post about him last summer which got quite a few responses. the title of the thread was something like "im bout to give him some RIGHT NOW." (I didn't end up giving him any until several months later, btw)
But our relationship is perfect. Not only that, but I'm sure any woman would die to have him. So the possibility of one of those beautiful dominica (not dominican republic) or grenadan women swooping him up is possible.
The problem is that he's penetrated my MIND- he's shown me how to think, introduced me to new concepts and ideas, shown me how to cook new dishes, heck- im even political now. So, I don't think Ill ever get over him because this information is going to be with me the rest of my life. Everytime I talk about politics with someone or cook spaghetti, Ill be thinking of him, you know?
I hope I don't sound pathetic, LMAO.
I guess I'm looking for encouraging stories. Have any of you ever had a bf go away, come back, and you still got married?
Or if he left and you guys never got back together, did you ever get over him?
I would love to get married one day but I'm afraid if me and him don't work out that I'll never be able to.
Please dont stone me for sounding pathetic.
He and I have NEVER had any problems during our relationship. I'd known him for about 6 months before we got together and we've been together about 6 months...so we're actually FRIENDS as well as bf/gf. I made a post about him last summer which got quite a few responses. the title of the thread was something like "im bout to give him some RIGHT NOW." (I didn't end up giving him any until several months later, btw)
But our relationship is perfect. Not only that, but I'm sure any woman would die to have him. So the possibility of one of those beautiful dominica (not dominican republic) or grenadan women swooping him up is possible.
The problem is that he's penetrated my MIND- he's shown me how to think, introduced me to new concepts and ideas, shown me how to cook new dishes, heck- im even political now. So, I don't think Ill ever get over him because this information is going to be with me the rest of my life. Everytime I talk about politics with someone or cook spaghetti, Ill be thinking of him, you know?
I hope I don't sound pathetic, LMAO.
I guess I'm looking for encouraging stories. Have any of you ever had a bf go away, come back, and you still got married?
Or if he left and you guys never got back together, did you ever get over him?
I would love to get married one day but I'm afraid if me and him don't work out that I'll never be able to.
Please dont stone me for sounding pathetic.
But forreal tho, only time can help you get over someone. The good thing is you 2 are friends. You should keep the lines of communication open but also do somethings for yourself that have nothing to do with him. You need to be interesting to him shoot- get in his MIND!!! (I think thats the goal of most men anyway to get in our heads) But don't chase him or act desperate because thats a turn off. Do you and be the best woman you can be- he's developing himself right now and you should be doing the same.
