Evolving78
Well-Known Member
i went through the same thing and just decided to cut my hair off again. i know how you feel and i feel at the end of the day, you have to be happy. some folks will come in here and will tell you that this is a marriage and you need to comprise, but you have to do what feels good to you. i did it and i resented my husband for it.
my hair had no effect on my marriage. he talked all of that garbage and nothing changed. you would think that after all of that protesting that men do, once you conform to what they think is beautiful, they would be all over you and it would be happily ever after. NOT!
i am at peace with myself again. before, i felt like a straight up sellout and i felt like i was living a lie. i love my cut and he actually is cool with it too. just as long as i don't grow it out into my coily nappy fro again!
my hair had no effect on my marriage. he talked all of that garbage and nothing changed. you would think that after all of that protesting that men do, once you conform to what they think is beautiful, they would be all over you and it would be happily ever after. NOT!
i am at peace with myself again. before, i felt like a straight up sellout and i felt like i was living a lie. i love my cut and he actually is cool with it too. just as long as i don't grow it out into my coily nappy fro again!