Alli77,
Creme of Nature is my favorite and by far the best detangler I've found for my thick relaxed hair.
But when I'm sick of that smell, I have used Pantene Light conditioner spray and Elasta QP Intensive treament( gives awesome slip.)
Beware: the Elasta product is Protein so when using this treatment, every 3 weeks, I follow with Keracare Humecto conditioner (moisture). No other product is needed after the rinse to detangle.
Good luck!
AZjeepgurl