Kkinds
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I was having a conversation with my friend and she brought up how some women introduce every man they date to their kids...that's a no no! She also said another friend of hers (who doesn't have kids) think you shouldn't let a man meet your child until y'all are engaged. That's a bit extreme.
Well, I have a daughter and my SO and I have been dating 6 months and I want to introduce them(my DD is usually with her dad when we hangout). I've already met and spent time with his son and the relationship is getting very serious. We planned a date for all of us to get together to go to an arts and craft cafe, bouncy house, lunch then the zoo. I don't want her to see him at home because I think that's too personal. I want to see how the dynamics of our(me, him, my kid and his kid) relationship would work before we keep dating. I'm going to introduce them to her as "Mr. *blank* and his son *blank* like I do all my girl friends and their kids. If it doesn't out then she won't remember them or just remember us hanging out with friends like usual.
Do you believe that women should wait until they are engaged? I don't think you can have a successful relationship with someone who your kids dislike or dislikes your kids. How did you introduce your kid and SO to each other?
Well, I have a daughter and my SO and I have been dating 6 months and I want to introduce them(my DD is usually with her dad when we hangout). I've already met and spent time with his son and the relationship is getting very serious. We planned a date for all of us to get together to go to an arts and craft cafe, bouncy house, lunch then the zoo. I don't want her to see him at home because I think that's too personal. I want to see how the dynamics of our(me, him, my kid and his kid) relationship would work before we keep dating. I'm going to introduce them to her as "Mr. *blank* and his son *blank* like I do all my girl friends and their kids. If it doesn't out then she won't remember them or just remember us hanging out with friends like usual.
Do you believe that women should wait until they are engaged? I don't think you can have a successful relationship with someone who your kids dislike or dislikes your kids. How did you introduce your kid and SO to each other?