sweetvi
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Kinkyhairlady
There is this wonderful book called 101 things to do without sex written by Christian author Jennifer Lucy Tyler. This book has great ideas you both can do.
My dear friend dated someone who was not mature in that aspect and she had to go through something similar. As a matter of fact, he was a christian who fornicated and she wasn't. Lol. Anyway she stuck to her boundaries and did not compromise. He never tried anything as far as I know. She prayed fervently and I think in less than a year he proposed. She actually was ready to leave him if he showed any signs of disrespect. But his walk grew more mature. As a matter of fact, she did leave him initially, but they got back together. Goes to show you what is meant for you will be for you. They are now on 4 year marriage with a big house and just had a second child. She lectures me saying know your worth and don't compromise. Men will always test and if they see your wishy washy, they won't believe you and will continue trying.
Successfulmiss
Maybe you can give her pointers on how you and hubby dated. It is easy to be celibate when your single and/or not attracted to prospects. However when you think you have found someone with potential, that's where the problem lies......
There is this wonderful book called 101 things to do without sex written by Christian author Jennifer Lucy Tyler. This book has great ideas you both can do.
My dear friend dated someone who was not mature in that aspect and she had to go through something similar. As a matter of fact, he was a christian who fornicated and she wasn't. Lol. Anyway she stuck to her boundaries and did not compromise. He never tried anything as far as I know. She prayed fervently and I think in less than a year he proposed. She actually was ready to leave him if he showed any signs of disrespect. But his walk grew more mature. As a matter of fact, she did leave him initially, but they got back together. Goes to show you what is meant for you will be for you. They are now on 4 year marriage with a big house and just had a second child. She lectures me saying know your worth and don't compromise. Men will always test and if they see your wishy washy, they won't believe you and will continue trying.
Successfulmiss
Maybe you can give her pointers on how you and hubby dated. It is easy to be celibate when your single and/or not attracted to prospects. However when you think you have found someone with potential, that's where the problem lies......