This is kinda long....
Well, i'm currently 'dating' a guy w/a disability. i never thought i would but this guy is AMAZING. He's wheelchair bound (was a victim of violence on the sreets/ wrong place at the wrong time) 15yrs now.
When I first saw him he was getting out of his car. I thought to myself 'oh look at him, he's in a wheelchair driving, he's by himself and he has a nice car. Then he spoke to me ' will you marry me?!'....I said hello and kept going. Thinking he was just like all the other just trying to holler....whatever. I go into work and see him there again he's like 'HEY!' we talk find out that we have tons in common. and we've been friends ever since.
The fact that he's in a chair doesn't bother me at all. I don't see that, if it bothered me soo much i would've never given him my number or even entertained the first conversation.
He's a very positive person, not mad at the world for is situtation.He's taught me a few things about life...hell and even how to dress!!! That's another thing he is an excellent dresser, from the suits with the hat to sean john sweat suit to roca wear jeans etc...he's very independent stays by himself his place is very clean and in order.
the next thing you're probably wondering...sex......i'll just say this, i've never hyperventilated or stuttered with anyone til i met him.....WOW!
I've never felt like a 'caretaker' i offer to help him all the time...open the door, carry stuff...he told me not to, he's suppose to do that and he does.
The only time I feel like 'do i want to do this forever' is when he want's me to massage his back...leave it up to him he'll never tell me to stop
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i could go on forever.....