OK, so I'm back (a little embarrassed that I was on this thread but couldn't find it) and newly natural. I'm not ready to sign off on co-washing just yet, since I still haven't really tried it exclusively. A couple of ahem mishaps necessitated that I clarify my hair and start over. But NOW I'm going to co-wash. I actually wasn't conscious in the past of whether my conditioners were cone-free (Now I'm sure that was the major issue, as my issue was build up and scalp irritation) so now that I am a little more educated, I'm going to try and do it right. Conditioner only and conditioner +gel wash and go's work for me right now. Still trying to figure out the right ratio of conditioner to gel. And trying to figure out why Lorraine Massey's own product (Angell) has a cone in it...but right now I'm laying off the gel.
I want to try Tressemme Naturals (since it's about oh, 1/7 of the price of DevaCurl One Condition) and Giovanni which I already have. I've also been testing out the method on my 4a and 4b kids. I also want to try my Curls Hair Tea conditioner because when I used it before, I thought my curls looked so nice and I would always think "it's a shame I have to rinse this out" LOL Who knows how it will dry, but it's still a good conditioner regardless. I can't do any of the V05's for some reason. They just leave my hair dry and straw-like. I didn't realize Suave had so many cone-free conditioners. I'm giving cone-free a chance, but I reserve the right to return to cones if this doesn't work out for me!