Sapphire
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When you are out of town on vacation, how often do you speak to your SO? Or is it a given that you'll be too busy enjoying your vacation to call/text your SO? This question is specifically for those who have frequent communication with their partner throughout the day.
I'm asking this because things ended with a guy I was seeing after I took a trip out of town with my mom and sis to Las Vegas. I got upset because he basically stopped communicating with me shortly after arriving in LV. He made one attempt (that I know of) to call and text me after I griped about his lack of communication, however I missed that call and text because I was in the shower. I did not hear from him again for the remainder of my trip despite my attempts to call/text him.
Yesterday after speaking with him in person he claimed he tried to call but didn't get an answer/went straight to voicemail. Plus after reading some of the texts I sent him he chose not to say anything. I don't feel as though I said anything bad, just simply expressed my concern after not hearing back from him. For example, "I feel like you're ignoring me." " I'm assuming our relationship is over since you're not returning my calls/texts. This was after not hearing from him for two days. He felt that we haven't been together long enough for me to be concerned that I hadn't heard from him in 2 days.
I realize I may have overreacted/jumped the gun by assuming the worse, but this wasn't someone I was just talking to/dating. We had the exclusive talk, removed our profiles from the dating site we met on, etc. There hasn't been a day that we have not talked since he first contacted me online.
So is it wrong to want to communicate with your SO while on vacation? I'm not talking full hour long conversations, just a text or short phone call here and there to touch base?
I'm asking this because things ended with a guy I was seeing after I took a trip out of town with my mom and sis to Las Vegas. I got upset because he basically stopped communicating with me shortly after arriving in LV. He made one attempt (that I know of) to call and text me after I griped about his lack of communication, however I missed that call and text because I was in the shower. I did not hear from him again for the remainder of my trip despite my attempts to call/text him.
Yesterday after speaking with him in person he claimed he tried to call but didn't get an answer/went straight to voicemail. Plus after reading some of the texts I sent him he chose not to say anything. I don't feel as though I said anything bad, just simply expressed my concern after not hearing back from him. For example, "I feel like you're ignoring me." " I'm assuming our relationship is over since you're not returning my calls/texts. This was after not hearing from him for two days. He felt that we haven't been together long enough for me to be concerned that I hadn't heard from him in 2 days.
I realize I may have overreacted/jumped the gun by assuming the worse, but this wasn't someone I was just talking to/dating. We had the exclusive talk, removed our profiles from the dating site we met on, etc. There hasn't been a day that we have not talked since he first contacted me online.
So is it wrong to want to communicate with your SO while on vacation? I'm not talking full hour long conversations, just a text or short phone call here and there to touch base?