Don't put pressure on yourself to all of a sudden fall in love with a platonic male friend, simply b/c he is at that state with you. You may not be ready, but let's just say you are..still sounds likehe's not the one. He's your friend and that is how you want things to stay. Nothing wrong with that.
My best friend alludes to this. She's an Aquarian.
Whoever comes along will simply have to offer her a better deal than all of the things she enjoys about her single. It will be a tough sell.
This is so true (and I am a Sag btw, the ultimate committment phobes). I'm divorced and have been single for 11 years for this reason (randomly dating, but no relationship lasted longer than about 3-4 months). The men I met never had enough to offer me to even think about integrating them into my life in any significant way (I've posted my dating blues on this board before). When things would fall apart, I was indifferent, not feeling it was any real loss. I found it much easier on my spirit to be alone then deal with men who didn't compliment my life in a significant way. For the last two years, I chose to not really date at all, just didn't want to be bothered..and for the most part, been happy and content.
I say all that to say, this past February, I met someone who checks 8/10 boxes, with the 5 that are most important to me, checked. Someone who is interesting in the ways I want a man to be, chivalrous, doting, extremely generous, caring, considerate of my situation as a single mother and has already professed his intentions for our relationship. He has me thinking of a future with him in it. I never thought I would be at this point with someone, but I am grateful that I am. Things are moving fast, but it feels right in ways that not even my previous marriage did, so I am rolling with it.
When the right person comes along, your view on compromising your time and space will change. You'll want to do these things (maybe not all the time, but a good deal of it) b/c you want to share your life with that person.