I was told that I am the perfect wife to cheat on because I have created this comfort zone for hubby. I am really a home body and I enjoy being home having me time and with my children. My husband hangs out with his friends at times and I don't question if that is where he really is. I don't call him during the course of his hanging because I am enjoying my me time. My energy is not for worrying or checking phones and such regarding a man. Now I have gone out with my girlfriends if I feel like getting out. It is not a regular thing I do because I enjoy my time with my children and myself. I have been told by my friends and two close male friend that I am the turn the other cheek kind of woman. In that as long as I don't know and home is taken care of I don't concern myself with what he does outside the door.
So when I tell them, my concern is not to worry about a grown up and cloud my mind with negative thoughts they call it BS! I didn't get married to worry about my hubby where about and to as they say check phones, sniff for scents, underwear and all. They think I should switch up my routine because he is comfortable with my whereabouts which creates all the room to be a cheater if he wanted t be. I work and I am a full time student with children and a marriage. Really? So I need to go out every weekend because hubby knows I am really a home body and he has no worries when out. I am what they label a robot and predictable and every man's dream for a chase of options. WHAT!!
So when I tell them, my concern is not to worry about a grown up and cloud my mind with negative thoughts they call it BS! I didn't get married to worry about my hubby where about and to as they say check phones, sniff for scents, underwear and all. They think I should switch up my routine because he is comfortable with my whereabouts which creates all the room to be a cheater if he wanted t be. I work and I am a full time student with children and a marriage. Really? So I need to go out every weekend because hubby knows I am really a home body and he has no worries when out. I am what they label a robot and predictable and every man's dream for a chase of options. WHAT!!
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