CHEATING OR NOT?

Under my terms of what I find acceptable or unacceptable...he cheated. It's up to you what you will do about it.
 
He wasn't thinking of OP when he sent those pics. He wasn't thinking of OP when he was having internet sex. He wasn't thinking of OP and his relationship when he called the lady nor asked to meet up with her. He was thinking of himself and his sexual drive. He is willing to take the risk of loosing OP for those stolen moments. He is not ready, best thing is let him go and find the right guy that doesn't want to lose you and desires and respect you.

Leave him to his internet sex, phone calls and meets up. He can be all happy with himself and not make you miserable in the process.

You are maybe asking yourself should I forgive him and give him a chance. How many chances does he need to break your heart? You already let him in your door, in your life and he does not appreciate you. Wack off to a magazine why did he go so far as he did and farther yet? He already decided he wanted some fun on the side and the little home with the wifey. He did that not you. He is quite selfish and thinking only about himself and you know he was going to take it to the next level.

Why settle for that? Don't kid yourself he is in remorse, his conversation he had not knowing you were still on skype confirmed that as per the evidence that you had was nothing to pin him on.

I am sorry OP this happened to you.
 
Oh dear. Truth is so stranger than fiction....

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TheGrimPhreaker said:
Aha. I'm on Second Life. I make a lot of money on there running a fake slore house. You wouldn't believe how many men come on there that are married to have "fake sex" with women. Some men I've had to ban because they ask for certain scenarios that are inappropriate like eating feces, or pedophilia. Yah. So In reference to the post, I think it's cheating-- it's emotional cheating. It's one thing if he just kept it online, but asking to meet in real life? Absolutely not.

This actually reminds me of when me and my aunt played World of Warcraft and she got caught up in our guild with the headmaster. She LEFT her HUSBAND and 4 KIDS (took the cat and dog though) in the MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT and moved to Colorado and got remarried to the Headmaster of our then guild. Not telling you what to do, but I would leave him with the QUICKNESS. It's too common unfortunately...
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Oh my goodness...
 
Just a quick update ladies this relationship is no more and I have NO regrets... Although I have had some mixed views from women on this, some say stay other say run like hell, and one told me to join the site to keep a eye on him (side bar I'm not doing all that its not worth it if I have to join sites and police him pfft)...

Once again I would like to thank you all....
 
HarlemHottie said:
Just a quick update ladies this relationship is no more and I have NO regrets... Although I have had some mixed views from women on this, some say stay other say run like hell, and one told me to join the site to keep a eye on him (side bar I'm not doing all that its not worth it if I have to join sites and police him pfft)...

Once again I would like to thank you all....
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Ugh, how did I know SOMEONE would suggest that? :rolleyes:

Glad you didn't go that route.
 
HarlemHottie said:
Nope he is GONE... I just took some time for me. :yep:
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YOU GO GIRL!!!! Drop that zero and get you a hero! I am very proud of you... And he is a rat bastard...
 
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