I'd love for you to contribute more. @
Katherina
Belle Du Jour
WTH?
Can you ladies share tips and tricks?
I don't want to say too much about this project I'm "working" on,
, but here are mine:
1) If you run in the same circle, or if he is a friend of a friend, find out as much as you can about him without making your intentions obvious. His close friends will distrust you and sabotage your plans if your cover gets "blown." Be cunning in finding out about his hobbies, romantic background, dislikes, etc. Drop little questions every now and then and then casually shrug off your curiosity. After some time you'll have some solid data that you can use.
2) If he is an expert at something, find a way to seek his advice about it. (This is working for me)
3) Know his thumbscrews and twirl on that sucka like a merry-go-round.
4) When his eyes start to light up and he starts to see you "in that light," (which will be easy if you're fun and attractive), use wit and humor to playfully tease him about his "intentions."
Of course, all of this will not happen overnight. Conduct due diligence and make sure he's a worthy enough prospect before you invest time and energy.