MsDeeDee82
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I am dating a guy for two years who I actually do love although he is short. We are at a point discussing marriage however he refuses to get married at my church and I refuse to get married at a catholic church. I dont know what to do. My parents absolutely adore him. They want me to marry him but they are carribbean and are strong believers in their faith. (Nothing against Catholics) I know I would set in all ways. I strong believer that a man should be the head of the household although I am a very strong person. We both dont want to break up and I refuse to date forever. There is no comprise. background. Before I met he hardly went to church I started going to church with him and he started enjoying church and respecting God. Now he is on a high horse about his children will be reaised catholic and he will get married in a catholic church. I told we can get married at a nondenominational church he said no. I know this man loves me. He adores me but in the eyes of God is this engough. So now we are deciding to break up at the end of May. basically prolonging everything. My problem I am standing by my faith and praying that God has the right one out there. I live in Boston. The carribbean community is small so there are a few good ones left but where are they. What should I do. I wont marry in a Catholic church though. We had the discussions about religion and he cant even defend himself. I hate going back into the single world. I am standing by faith on this one.
In addition, there is a fine brotha at my gym Lord have mercy trying to holla at me. I can turn him into a summer fling but thats not what i really want. I WANT THE RIGHT ONE. Jesus I am doing for you. He is very attractive but I am still suspect of men like him. Sexy tall muscle man and he also has a 12 yrs daughter. He hardly answers his phone... you know the usual. Ladies advice advice
In addition, there is a fine brotha at my gym Lord have mercy trying to holla at me. I can turn him into a summer fling but thats not what i really want. I WANT THE RIGHT ONE. Jesus I am doing for you. He is very attractive but I am still suspect of men like him. Sexy tall muscle man and he also has a 12 yrs daughter. He hardly answers his phone... you know the usual. Ladies advice advice