Can I ask a DUMB question

Forgive me if it's been asked.... Im a transitioner. Why does my scalp become tender at times?
Why are my relaxed ends more tangled than the natural hair?

Does relaxing for years change the intial new growth?
 
Forgive me if it's been asked.... Im a transitioner. Why does my scalp become tender at times?
Why are my relaxed ends more tangled than the natural hair?

Does relaxing for years change the intial new growth?

I don't know any of these...still early in my transition and researching info...sorry...

I have one...what's "wooosah!"?
 
That's what i do, too...




Relaxed hair just needs the correct ratio of protein to moisture. Everyone's hair is different. Your hair sounds like mine, needs far more moisture in the balance than protein and even just a little can throw off the symmetry...i think you just have to find the right balance (using less) and experiment with different kinds of protein, including some lighter ones. Most times, my hair can get away with the generic proteins that are in regular conditioners. I don't use a protein specific one...I tried Aphogee and various other protein based products when I first joined thinking like you I had to have protein products and it was too much for my hair...it just got brittle and stiff...

I just ordered the SAA from lotioncrafters thinking I could add it to some of my products to make my hair silkier....Reading your post, I hope it works ok for me...:perplexed



:grin: Yep, I am about to try the SAA, too...mascara and all! :lachen:

Good, try it, caus Oh, does it work! My lashes are the best they have ever been. :grin:
 
lol i didn't see the movie, but its somethin they said in bad boys 2, some kinda calmin down technique. somebody who's seen it could tell you

ooohhhhh, ok it's a calming down technique...i get it now...:grin:

Good, try it, caus Oh, does it work! My lashes are the best they have ever been. :grin:

oooh, yeah!!!:spinning: I can't wait, 'cause my po lil lashes need some help- do you use it on your hair? if so, how's it working for you and how do you use it?
 
Forgive me if it's been asked.... Im a transitioner. Why does my scalp become tender at times?
Why are my relaxed ends more tangled than the natural hair?

Does relaxing for years change the intial new growth?
up to the first 3 inches can be "scab hair" so it may take some time. your texture can change again. i never had tenderness and my natural hair was more tangled than the ends...try gentle detangling with a lot of conditioner in your hair and a shower comb or denman.
 
Forgive me if it's been asked.... Im a transitioner. Why does my scalp become tender at times?
Why are my relaxed ends more tangled than the natural hair?

Does relaxing for years change the intial new growth?

Well I have had a tender scalp but I just chalked it up to my rollers being in super tight when I wash. I want the roots staright so I put the pins in really tight...by the time it dries my head is on fire...now just from NG I have no idea.
 
Please show me the correct denman brush to get for a transition or natural...i bought a dang wig one :spinning:

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The D3 is recommended for medium to longer hair. It is Denman's most popular styling brush. It is also available in a selection of colors - all black, black & white, as well as new special prints, including leopard skin, skin and denim.

For smoothing fine to medium hair

Smooth nylon bristles grip & control the style

Use with a blowdryer to straighten natural movement

Available in 3 sizes - with 5, 7 or 9 rows of bristle

The more rows of bristles, the better the grip

What makes a Classic Styling Brush?

All the Classic Stylers are characterised by smooth, firm nylon bristles embedded in a pure rubber base. The nylon bristles are rounded at the ends, so do not scratch the hair or scalp. The rubber base is semi-circular in shape and this becomes more defined in the larger sizes. During blowdrying, you can rotate the brush through the ends of the hair, adding slight curl and bend.The Classic stylers are heat resistant, so they can be used with a blowdryer. They can easily cleaned in soap and water.


I have the 9 row...I use it to blow dry currently and plan on using it to detangle once natural. I've had it for over 7 years. Mine is all back, tho-

A lot of folks use the D4...it's got 9 rows...


What's the diff between a leave-in and moisturizer? Is it necessary to use both?

I think both are supposed to help put nutirents/moisture back into the hair. My understanding (again, I say my...:lachen:) is that a moisturizer is typically used on dry hair and the leave-in is typically used on towel dried or wet hair. I typically use a leave in, rather than a moisturizer, as my hair is porous and when wet in a towel dried state, the cuticles are still a little open and does a better job of retaining whatever conditioning properties the leave-in has...moisturizers tend to sit on top of my hair. They don't work as well for me. I guess you could use both, but IMO if you use a good leave-in, you shouldn't have to use a moisturizer or use it as much...again...this is just my understanding, girl... Some people have fantastic results with moisturizers...I guess it just really depends on your hair and what it prefers...
 
I think both are supposed to help put nutirents/moisture back into the hair. My understanding (again, I say my...:lachen:) is that a moisturizer is typically used on dry hair and the leave-in is typically used on towel dried or wet hair. I typically use a leave in, rather than a moisturizer, as my hair is porous and when wet in a towel dried state, the cuticles are still a little open and does a better job of retaining whatever conditioning properties the leave-in has...moisturizers tend to sit on top of my hair. They don't work as well for me. I guess you could use both, but IMO if you use a good leave-in, you shouldn't have to use a moisturizer or use it as much...again...this is just my understanding, girl... Some people have fantastic results with moisturizers...I guess it just really depends on your hair and what it prefers...

OK. That makes sense.

You ever just wonder if you're buying too much stuff for one head of hair? :lachen: That thought occurred to me today. I didn't know if I was doing too much.
 
how did all of these techniques become parts of peoples regimen? stretchin, purposely underprocessin, etc? i understand the no trim thing and other such things from cathy howse, but what about everything else?
 
OK. That makes sense.

You ever just wonder if you're buying too much stuff for one head of hair? :lachen: That thought occurred to me today. I didn't know if I was doing too much.


OT: That's everyday for me...I just went to the dollar store and cleaned out their entire stack (like 5 :rolleyes:) of V05 Herbal Rasberry Balancing Conditioner. It works so well on my hair...as a leave-in:lachen:, matter of fact, for my braidouts....


:ohwell: i have serious issues...my PJism is out of control...I put myself on a budget and still justified the doggone expense saying "it's only $5, and it works so well...." - watch it stop working, that's how my luck has been running with this hair thing...:lachen:
 
I've only been doing this hair thing for 5 months, but this is what I've learned about leave-ins and moisturizers: Leave-ins are conditioners containing special emollients/softeners for the hair. Good moisturizers, have humectants added, or act as humectants, which means they have the ability to attract moisture to the hair. Moisturizers should have water listed as the first ingredient in the product.
Water is the absolute best natural moisturizer for hair, but the moisture should be sealed in with an oil. Leave-ins should be used weekly after washing the hair; moisturizers should be used every day, morning, (before styling) and night, (before bed) or during the day as needed.

I have read half of this thread already, and I must say this is an ingenious idea-less painful when there are lots of people asking dumb questions, than looking dumb all by yourself.:yep:..Keep it coming ladies, and thanks for this thread, because it is very helpful!!!
 
how did all of these techniques become parts of peoples regimen? stretchin, purposely underprocessin, etc? i understand the no trim thing and other such things from cathy howse, but what about everything else?

..people up on here everyday, several times a day (like me:lachen:), reading and wanting to try new things 'cause someone posts a thread with some doggone pics ranting and ravin' about how well the product worked for them and what good results they got and yada yada yada...i fall into this trap everythime I hear or see something new...it's like a wildfire...all someone has to do is say they got some inches of growth or some other good results and everybody starts to try it...:rolleyes:

seriously, tho-, you really do have to take a good look at what your hair needs and what will work best for you and your lifestyle before you start trying any and everything the board has to offer...
 
I've only been doing this hair thing for 5 months, but this is what I've learned about leave-ins and moisturizers: Leave-ins are conditioners containing special emollients/softeners for the hair. Good moisturizers, have humectants added, or act as humectants, which means they have the ability to attract moisture to the hair. Moisturizers should have water listed as the first ingredient in the product.
Water is the absolute best natural moisturizer for hair, but the moisture should be sealed in with an oil. Leave-ins should be used weekly after washing the hair; moisturizers should be used every day, morning, (before styling) and night, (before bed) or during the day as needed.

I have read half of this thread already, and I must say this is an ingenious idea-less painful when there are lots of people asking dumb questions, than looking dumb all by yourself.:yep:..Keep it coming ladies, and thanks for this thread, because it is very helpful!!!

I think that's true.:yep: My hair was kinda fuzzy when i used dif moisturizers on dry hair, so I stopped using as I was wearing a relaxer. I think, tho- that when I fully transition, I will have to revist the whole moisturizer thing...:yep:
 
I just went to the dollar store and cleaned out their entire stack (like 5 :rolleyes:) of V05 Herbal Rasberry Balancing Conditioner. It works so well on my hair...as a leave-in:lachen:, matter of fact, for my braidouts....


:ohwell: i have serious issues...my PJism is out of control...I put myself on a budget and still justified the doggone expense saying "it's only $5, and it works so well...." - watch it stop working, that's how my luck has been running with this hair thing...:lachen:
girrrrrl you aint neva lied. can i preach about the goodness of VO5 as a leave-in for a second? i cowashed today and left ALL the strawberries and creme in...my WNG is beautiful...i mean moisturized, soft, and NOT SHRUNKEN! what in the world is in this stuff, scented crack?

you need to get on the buy nothing challenge bandwagon. cured me in 2 weeks.
 
girrrrrl you aint neva lied. can i preach about the goodness of VO5 as a leave-in for a second? i cowashed today and left ALL the strawberries and creme in...my WNG is beautiful...i mean moisturized, soft, and NOT SHRUNKEN! what in the world is in this stuff, scented crack?

you need to get on the buy nothing challenge bandwagon. cured me in 2 weeks.

i ain't ready yet...:lachen:
 
This thread is enough to make all the newbies lurking come out of hiding:grin:. I know I need to keep my hair moisturized but what about my scalp? Is it okay to put oil on my scalp?

Most oils can't penetrate the hair shaft, but they can, and will penetrate the scalp, just make sure you don't over do it.:grin:

I brought ORS Olive Oil in the jar (the creamy kind) as a moisturizer for my hair because I heard so many ladies recommend it but when I looked at the ingredients the second ingredient is mineral oil:wallbash:. Did I buy the wrong product or has it changed?

I've only seen ORS Olive Oil Hair Lotion in a bottle. You bought the ORS Olive Oil, not the moisturizer.

I have one.....is there any way to deep condition without all the getting in and out of the shower 50-11 times? Once I'm out, I want to stay out - but I know flipping your hair in the sink can lead to tangles, etc...TIA:crossfingers:

Try pre-poo treatments instead. Meaning, do your deep conditioning before you shampoo. Not only will your dry hair absorb the nutrients better, but it also reduces the drying effects caused by shampoo.



Haven't had a chance to read yet, but my dumb question is, how long do you leave conditioner on when co-washing? I know I'll get stoned for this question, but I really want to know. :rolleyes::lachen:

If the answer is in this thread, ignore, I'll read through it tonite. :grin:

Leave it on for as long as you like. I put some conditioner on handle my business in the shower, detangle, then rinse. If the conditioner has protein, don't leave it on for too long, but 10 minutes never hurt anyone :lachen:
 
OP this thread is an awesome idea!

I have 2 questions....

what is HAM?


and how in the hayle do you make a poll?

TIA :wave:
 
OP this thread is an awesome idea!

I have 2 questions....

what is HAM?


and how in the hayle do you make a poll?

TIA :wave:

Hot *** Mess

Poll options are under the text box when you start an original thread. I'm sure someone will give better detail though.
 
Can using a regular wash out conditioner as a leave-in condition be toxic to your hair?

It depends on the conditioner. If it has too much protein in it, then using it as a leave in could cause damage. Moisturizing conditioners make for wonderful leave ins:yep: HTH
 
Thanks! I never would have figured out HAM lol I like that tho


Yeah, before you cick submit reply, you scroll down past the icons that you can add to "additonal options", and you click a box that i think says "add a poll", you put how many options you want to be on the poll, then you click submit reply on the bottom....

Then it will take you to your poll that your going to make, and you can change how many options you want....Your post will be there before the poll though...So if it takes you 30min to make the poll, people are going to be in your thread talking about "? I dont see a poll".....
 
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