MsMiacela - Reading your post is like reading about myself. I also have 4 1/b hair and have weaved, permed etc. I'm in a weave no that is coming out tonight! All I can say is do NOT texturize your hair. It will not give you the defined curls/waves you want. I'm still searching but you can learn from my mistake...There is a John Frieda serum that if you braid your hair up with it at night you get nice, defined curls the next day. I'll have to fid the name again. The serum itself is white.
Join date: 4-14-07 Been lurking for a min! lol
Hair state/length: My hair is VERY fine and relaxed. I don't know what my hair type is though. I was natural for almost 2 yrs and then relaxed in '07. I thougt it was too hard to care for. I didn't know this site then
Goal length: At least BSL
Regimen/Reggie: I wash every Sunday with Nexxus Humectress and then i do a deep condition with NTM Daily Deep Conditioner mixed with Castor oil under the dryer for about 45 mins. I also use Nexxus Emergencee every now and then
Styling: I do a roller set on Sundays, then for the rest of the week I bun
Heat commitment: I don't use heat
Stretching goal: I'm trying to do at least 12 weeks
Posting goals:
Albums? Links? I don't have one yet!
What do you need to know? I wanna know if my ends look like it needs to be trimmed now, or could I just trim as I go? My ends look kinda see thru to me. See my siggy.
HELLO to all..
I'm Skiggle!!!
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals? I HAD nice natural hair since I was small, till unfortunately my mother introduced me to relaxers .For 13 years I've had a bitter sweet relationship with perms.Its long one minute, it grows, break, sheds..cycle repeats....My Goal is simple: natural, strong, HEALTHY hair. I'm curious to see what my natural hair looks like...
Join date: Today... ..Lurker since November 20082: What's your hair doing now? What do u use? What's your reggie (regimen)? What's in your stash? What's your style?
3: WHAT do U need to know? Everything really.... how to retain moisture..new products etc...
- Coconut oil, castor oil, aovacdo oil, rosemary, orange, lemon essential oils, Anything with the name Giovanni on it...lol..unrefined shea butter, aloe vera gel, EVOO..etc..
- I'm still trying to build a hair regimen..... I love Braids and twists
4. What forums do u like?..This one is really cool.!
Hair state/length: I don't even know...
Goal length: APL
Regimen/Reggie:
Styling: Braids/Twists/Kiny Twists
Heat commitment: I don't do heat
Stretching goal: if applies: Pass my neck
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals?
Well I have worn every wig and weave under the sun, I think my mom had me relaxed at birth. So now I've shaved it off and started over.
2: What's your hair doing now?
TWA (I just learned that means Teeny Weeny Afro) I wear wigs as a protective style
What do u use?
Mostly Herbal Essences Long term Relationship (HE LTR) or Breaks Over (HE BO) and I add powders like alma and brahmi and oils like almond and coconut and I always add honey.
What's your reggie (regimen)?
I co-wash as much as I can, I think my hair likes it and I DC about twice a week. ACV (apple cider vinegar) rinse so far, once a month (not sure I like it, gonna try baking soda). I also tried a oil rinse which I liked but I'm not sure when or how often to do it.
What's in your stash?
Vo5 strawberry, some suave, some trader joe's (no poos just conditioners), some Indian stuff, shea butter and some oils.
What's your style?
Wigs, Wigs and more wigs
3: WHAT do U need to know?
I really want to cut my split ends but I don't know how b/c its so short. Should I just go to a barber? I feel like they are splitting further each day but I'm not sure. I think it keeps be from seeing my real hair type.
4. What forums do u like?
All of them, I really like the Natural living one second to the Hair care one of course.
Join date:
02/18/09
Hair state/length:
3/4 inches
Goal length:
MBL
Heat commitment:
Not sure
Posting goals:
pictures once a month, post once a week
Albums? Links?
Not as of yet
Join date: Dec 2008
Hair state/length: Thick Hair Just BC in February and Im in Braids Now so I Dunno
Goal length: APL
Regimen/Reggie: Wash once a week , oil scalp wit WGHO every other day , use infusium 23 every day
Styling: Braids
Heat commitment: None ! Unless i really need to
Stretching goal: if applies:
Im a 4a Natural Now
Albums? Links? No albums nothing yet atleast
I just joined today...WHOHOO!! I love LHCF ive been lurking for about 6 months! Finally decided to get my butt actively involved and start growing some hair!
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals? I am a 4a/b and have never attained any growth past my collar bone... Between the weaving, perms, hands in my hair... i believe i just do too dag on much to it. My hair has always looked nice, but its never been the length that i want. My goal is to reach AP by the Dec of 09'. I know to reach that will be very hard, but i am commited to it and to KEEPING my hands out of out.
2: What's your hair doing now? I had worn weaves for the majority of 08'...as a feeble attempt to not manipulate my hair.. and grow out the perm. i didnt get much growth for some reason though... so i took out the weave about two months ago, omg! i found myself washing, blow and flat ironing my hair twice a week!! I have thick curly NG and the moment i did anything active it reverted...so i put it back up in a Full head weave, and this time...I WILL RETAIN LEGNTH
What do u use? What's your reggie.. i use AVEDA, and NEXXUS, essential oil blend of Olive Oil, Pepermint, Rosemary, Orange and chamomile oil
.. my reggie.. 1 raw egg w/ wheat germ daily, CO wash 2x week, DC 1x week, message scalp daily, vitamins- folic acid, biotin
3: WHAT do U need to know? I would love to wear my hair natural sometimes, so i dont have to put so much heat in it. Someone PLEASE tell me how to find curl defination in 4a/b hair that has mostly waves and loose coils...
Oh Yeah. I have enjoyed everything I have read so far. Lots of info - somewhat overwhelming. So I a using the search function.
I just researched those Ayurveda powders and now I am more confused than ever. I would like to know where do I start?
Also, can someone suggest what I can use to stretch my time to my next relaxer? I would love to make 3/year15 weeks, but my scalp starts to protest after about 3 months. I am set to put one in this weekend, but will delay if I hear some good options.
Thnx
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals?
Where have I been??...at home? lol...
I want my hair healthy again, and capable of retention.
2: What's your hair doing now? What do u use? What's your reggie (regimen)?
What's in your stash? What's your style?
My regimen is non existence. I am starting to go to the salon for a press once a month or so once I feel ok with doing my own hair. When it's curly I use giovanni leave in. Shea butter. AO shampoo. and that TJ Nourish condish
3: WHAT do U need to know?
everything.
4. What forums do u like?
hair care, Christian, Relationship
Join date: in 2008 but i wasn't a subscriber until last month
Hair state/length: a little above bsl
Goal length: wl
Heat commitment: once a month
Stretching goal: i don't know what that means
Join date: January 2009
Hair state/length: thin/fine, APL+
Goal length: full, healthy MBL/WL (I am very short so it's almost the same)
Regimen/Reggie: pre-pooing, co-washing, chelating/clarifying periodically, henna, DC'ing, periodic dusting
Styling: bunning 90%+
Heat commitment: dryer for rollersetting 2-4 times a month
Stretching goal: if applies: 12-14 weeks
Posting goals: at least once a month
Albums? Links?
As soon as I learn how to upload a photo I will post my starting pic! (I took my first set tonight)
Join date: 12-12-2008
Hair state/length: shoulder length
Goal length: waist length
Regimen/Reggie: I rarely use shampoo, maybe once a month.
I co-wash & DC twice a week
moisturize & seal every other day
Styling: usually in a bun, I use to wear my hair out everyday but for the past couple weeks i've been bunning.
Heat commitment: I haven't used heat since I started taking better care of my hair
Stretching goal: if applies: I use to relax my hair every 6-7 weeks but now i'm on my 9th week. Next stretching goal is 10 weeks.
Posting goals: update with a picture once a month
1:
What's your style?
mostly a bob or back in a mini bun or pony tail
3: WHAT do U need to know?
what to do with neck length, extremely coarse, resistant hair (lol)
I became a subscribed member about a week ago
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals?
I have done about everything except be natural, i'm relaxed.
My goal is to grow my hair past my bra strap and to have a healthy thick hair.
2: What's your hair doing now? What do u use? What's your reggie (regimen)? What's in your stash? What's your style?
My hair texture is fine at the moment and am trying to build up thickness, I've started to exercise which is a bit of pain cos of sweat. I just relaxed a week ago and am hoping to have a weave done in about 2.5weeks. I wash and deep condition with ORS Mayo and oil treatments, I use my oil mixture of MT,Coconut, Jojoba and castor oil daily as my hair gets dry exp the scalp. I plan to have weaves, kinky twist and canerows mostly for the rest of the year
3: WHAT do U need to know?
How to get thickness and length - Product, style, treatments recommendations.
4. What forums do u like? Hair and health
Yo. I'm Giggletush, and I too am a newbie.
I knew about this board back in '07, but didn't really lurk/explore. I just decided to subscribe about a month ago.
I became interested in taking care of my hair last summer/fall when I finally got fed up ! I had gotten a bad relaxer in June, and a weave. Then had to take the weave out in early August. I had sooo much new growth and reversion (of course I didn't really understand these terms at that point). My hair was EXTREMELY dry and the demarcation line was not taken care of, causing my hair to fall off in clumps. I started searching the web for help and solutions. I had learned about cowashing a while before, and had been doing it at least once a week. But I had been using a protein conditioner, and no moisture...which attributed to protein overload and extreme breakage. Anyhoo, I decided to just not deal with my hair anymore and get a lacefront. That was when I found BHM, and was obsessed with the lacefront section....I wanted to research for at least 1 full month before investing in one. One day I got bored with the section and wondered over to the growth section, and have never looked back since. I never did invest in that lacefront, and have rediscovered my hair, in a more manageable state.
I LOVE LHCF, and am sooooo glad that I finally subscribed.
My hair was about neck length when I started on the 19th of Dec, and am now shoulder length (But not quite full shoulder). I'm 4a/b hair type, and it's pretty thin. I'm still in the process of learning to balance my protein and moisture. And TRYING soo hard not to be too much of a PJ. My goals right now I guess are:
1. To build the health of my hair
2. Learn proper retention methods
3. Then focus on length.
Sorry for the loooong story, when I start typing I just can't seem to stop
YAY!!!! Im so happy you started this Niiq!! I hope its not too late to join this challenge bc I am a newbie who NEEDS this. So Im in! I just finished the find a regimen challenge and am currently in the Neck/collarbone challenge but really haven't done anything. Am trying to really use the forum to reach my goals. I think this may help in trying to get there bc I need the structure and support from my natural sisters. Here is my info:
1: Where you been, where you wanna go with your hair? Goals?
I have done it all. I want to learn to love my natural hair. I think that will come through learning how to care for it properly and having a length that I want. My goal is to be educated on how to reach that length and will in turn begin to love my hair.
2: What's your hair doing now? What do u use? What's your reggie (regimen)? What's in your stash? What's your style?
My hair is doing nothing right now. I just don't know. I have only been doing my regimen for a week. I am using AO Honeysuckle Rose shampoo, Pantene Pro-v deep conditioning masque, ORS Hair mayo, Giovanni Direct Leave-in, Motions Leave-in, Profectiv moisturizer, pantene moisturizer, JC nourish and shine, castor oil
3: WHAT do U need to know?
EVERYTHING I CAN!!! How do I get this stuff to grow
4. What forums do u like? Hair care, skin care*not sure if this is real name of forum*
Join date: 3-2-09
Hair state/length: 4a/b, hair reaches my earlobes when stretched and just to my nape in back. I have short spots, from breakage Im trying to grow back.
Goal length: SL Length
Regimen/Reggie: Right now, I am alternating between protein treatments one week and deep conditioning the next. I am moisturizing and sealing 2x/day and co-washes after the gym.
Styling: Twists, this is all I know how to do and probably all my hair is long enough for w/o putting heat on it.
Heat commitment: Trying to have No heat
Stretching goal: if applies: past shoulders?
Posting goals: Would like to post what Im doing every week
Albums? Links? None yet
Please respond or PM me with any helpful info that I can use