fluffyforever
Well-Known Member
I just met one of my SO's friends and we all started hanging out together recently. He's cute, funny, smart, and holds 2 jobs in 2 different cities, with one job being full time. Well, we got to talking by ourselves when my SO and his other friend left to pick up some things at the grocery store. And during the whole conversation, I kept thinking how he would be perfect for my BFF to date. After that thought initially popped into my mind, he expressed how he was looking to find a girlfriend in my city --like he could read my mind-- and how he was looking to move to my city soon.
The problem that is preventing me from setting them up on a blind date is that my BFF is in a relationship and is not looking for anyone new. But I hate her BF, and have ever since HS when he wouldn't take her to prom and threatened to go with a slut if she went to prom with me. Since then he has cheated on her many times and takes advantage of her in all ways possible. She regularly asks for my advice on how she should handle things, and I tell her straight like a BFF should to dump his *** and get a better man who can take care of you and not the other way around. But she keeps accepting him back because she is afraid no one else would want to date her, she doesn't want to be alone.
Over the years I have suggested she date other people because her BF sholl is. The next time she asks me for advice, which I can tell is going to be real soon, I want to bring up SO's friend. The only reason I would even bring him up is because she asks what I think about everything.
I was even thinking about introducing them at an outing or something where we would all get together. Not push a relationship or anything, but if they meet and hit it off, then good.
What would you do?
The problem that is preventing me from setting them up on a blind date is that my BFF is in a relationship and is not looking for anyone new. But I hate her BF, and have ever since HS when he wouldn't take her to prom and threatened to go with a slut if she went to prom with me. Since then he has cheated on her many times and takes advantage of her in all ways possible. She regularly asks for my advice on how she should handle things, and I tell her straight like a BFF should to dump his *** and get a better man who can take care of you and not the other way around. But she keeps accepting him back because she is afraid no one else would want to date her, she doesn't want to be alone.
Over the years I have suggested she date other people because her BF sholl is. The next time she asks me for advice, which I can tell is going to be real soon, I want to bring up SO's friend. The only reason I would even bring him up is because she asks what I think about everything.
I was even thinking about introducing them at an outing or something where we would all get together. Not push a relationship or anything, but if they meet and hit it off, then good.
What would you do?