ITA! I was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY and I had brastrap length hair. I didn't think twice about it because it didn't seem unusual because alot of women (like you and many others have mentioned) have long hair in NY. I agree, I think it's the water. I moved to the South and alot of the black women that I see with long hair have weaves. I don't get it. And when I lived in NYC, I used some of the cheapest products on the market. VO5 Shampoo/Con and LeKair Cholesterol (Orange color)were my staples and my hair was beautiful, and very healthy.
Also, I've noticed that women in the city were eager to share ideas about hair care and salons to visit. But, for some reason (maybe it's just the area that I'm in) no one wants to share any knowledge about hair. I would view anyone asking me for hair advice as a compliment! But, I've received really strange looks and basically "I don't remember" answers whenever I ask about hair salons, products, styles, etc. from locals. I am so thankful for this website!! /images/graemlins/clap.gif