Laela, I think your heart is very sincere on this issue and thank you for what you said. I can see how some of the opinions come off as condemnation on NB & Bishop Long.
But I think many people here have been moved by the testimony of the boys and respond out of defense for these 4 boys who are facing 25,000 cheering church members along with Long who continues to use is sermons as a platform for his case. I don’t believe everyone’s opinions are only conjecture, I have discerned somethings that I found "off-putting" about the case and also things he has said in both sermons.
Sometimes you can hear much more than was said, if you know what I mean. I know this issue is dividing many Christians but I pray it does not divide the CF. May we judge each other’s opinions only and not each other. I hope we all can continue to be honest about what we think, and correct each other in love if need be.
May I share what's in my heart?
A 'True' Father Spiritual or otherwise would embrace his sons ....
and just plainly say: "Please Forgive Me", I'm sorry, even if I don't agree with the actions you've taken, I am still your father and I love you still as my 'sons' and I want to be a part of your healing. And I will still be here for you. No matter how this turns out, I will still be here for you in prayer and in heart. I am still your father.
As Leader of the Church: Before we have service, let's pray for these young men. "No matter what you have heard or what you may hear, these young men are still a part of our Church family and we have to cover them in love and in prayer, for 'love' covers a multitude..."
How is it that these young men have stated publicly, even with their hurt, that they still have love for Bishop Long and remember him as 'their father'. . .
I don't understand ... And this makes me cry. Really cry... that a 'big' man can behave so very 'small'.
I'm sorry if I've offended anyone reading. I don't mean to. I don't want anyone hurting by what I've shared, but this is a reality which I'm trying to understand.
Blessings to everyone....