ellegantelle
Well-Known Member
I am completely lost when it comes to balancing friendships and a relationship. I am used to being the girl who was with her friends all the time, hanging out with them, going away on vacations, spending almost all my free time with them in my early twenties. Now that I'm almost thirty and getting married next year, I'm finding it hard to balance my friendships and my relationship. And I also think a part of it is that I'm just personally changing (I think I'm becoming more of an introvert as I get older...)
But everytime I turn around, my girlfriends are inviting me to another party, another event, another outing. I try to make it to as many as I can, but I feel guilty when I can't or don't want to go. I have four girlfriends that are close friends of mine, so you can imagine the amount of events these girls are planning for themselves and their boyfriends.
My fiancé doesn't mind me going out, but I hate the thought of dragging him to an event every weekend or going out with the girls each weekend. And it seems like my friends are not too understanding when I cannot make it or don't want to go to some of the non-important events (like a Halloween costume party last year).
How does a married or almost married woman balance all of this in life? Any suggestions or advice?
But everytime I turn around, my girlfriends are inviting me to another party, another event, another outing. I try to make it to as many as I can, but I feel guilty when I can't or don't want to go. I have four girlfriends that are close friends of mine, so you can imagine the amount of events these girls are planning for themselves and their boyfriends.
My fiancé doesn't mind me going out, but I hate the thought of dragging him to an event every weekend or going out with the girls each weekend. And it seems like my friends are not too understanding when I cannot make it or don't want to go to some of the non-important events (like a Halloween costume party last year).
How does a married or almost married woman balance all of this in life? Any suggestions or advice?