Ateeya's Update

[Nice & Wavy]

Why is there a tag "chewable"???

 

[janaq2003]

Thx TaurusAngel!

 

[LunadeMiel]

You ladies are funny

 

[Junebug D]

There's a "msa" tag now?

 

[PGirl]

There's a "msa" tag now?

Ok wait a minute....Wha tha heck? Is that "subliminal" (sp?) messaging or what?

 

[bella gee]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

 

[LongiLox]

This thread has 395 posts. Are you guys fighting in here? Why are you guys always fighting?

 

[soulie]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

Re the bolded: isn't that what all the affirmations in posts are? Statements on whether or not we "like" a person's hair? Whether it is called gorgeous, beautiful, or a simple "nice hair", it's a statement that the poster "likes" the hair in question. People do it in threads all day every day, but in this case people shouldn't be able to express their opinions? Incidentally, you have told a number of people in threads that you thought their hair was beautiful; you were expressing your view and now other people are expressing theirs.

 

[bella gee]

Incidentally, I was taught if you dont have anything nice to say , dont say it at all.

And that is all I have to say.

 

[Finally Free]

I WISH, I WISH
WITH ALL MY MIGHT!
THAT ATEEYA'S THREAD
DIE TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[STLCoverGirl]

Re the bolded: isn't that what all the affirmations in posts are? Statements on whether or not we "like" a person's hair? Whether it is called gorgeous, beautiful, or a simple "nice hair", it's a statement that the poster "likes" the hair in question. People do it in threads all day every day, but in this case people shouldn't be able to express their opinions? Incidentally, you have told a number of people in threads that you thought their hair was beautiful; you were expressing your view and now other people are expressing theirs.

You are right, but again we are all here(hopefully) to learn and help others through our mistakes and give encouragement. All the negativity really isn't necessary, if someone doesn't like someone's hair KEEP IT MOVING. It's about tact and being respectful imo.

I wouldn't walk up to Ateeya or any other human being in real life and say "wow, your ends look busted, your hair is thin and I don't like it". What's the point? This is a hair board and we women are sensitive about our hair, I just don't think that people need to share their opinion on everything. It's really ok to keep some things to yourself, or move on to another thread.

 

[Auburn]

I WISH, I WISH
WITH ALL MY MIGHT!
THAT ATEEYA'S THREAD
DIE TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree. I was just thinking to myself of how tired I am of seeing this thread at the top all the time. They wont stop until its locked though..

 

[HAIRapy]

@ the people who want it to die and can't stand to see the thread anymore. Just don't come into the thread anymore. Is it really THAT hard to not click the thread?

 

[Finally Free]

@ the people who want it to die and can't stand to see the thread anymore. Just don't come into the thread anymore. Is it really THAT hard to not click the thread?

SEE!!!

 

[gorgeoushair]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

It's ok if someone doesn't like her hair and I think there's nothing wrong with saying that but when you come with " no one is jealous of her limp, swanging, broken off, peek a boo hairline, "W" shaped hair"....... This is where the negative tone comes in. I mean, was that neccessary. Some people just have a "I don't give a D" attitude and don't care what they post or how they post it.

 

[HAIRapy]

SEE!!!

You are a mess!!

 

[Auburn]

@ the people who want it to die and can't stand to see the thread anymore. Just don't come into the thread anymore. Is it really THAT hard to not click the thread?

Youre right but Im pretty sure if enough people say the same thing, it'll eventually die out. What I really want to know is what else is there to debate about?

 

[TaurusAngel]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

Lol, girl you better stop speaking the truth. Your hair will be on the hit list next.

 

[HAIRapy]

Youre right but Im pretty sure if enough people say the same thing, it'll eventually die out. What I really want to know is what else is there to debate about?

Who knows. I refuse to debate about it any longer BUT someone else might have something to say. I'm not tired of seeing this thread pop up with new posts though because it is entertaining to me. There's nothing else going on with the board lately and this is the closest we have to a juicy thread, so I hope it keeps going.

 

[pookaloo83]

Youre right but Im pretty sure if enough people say the same thing, it'll eventually die out. What I really want to know is what else is there to debate about?

They're debating on why you shoudn't debate, and why you should debate so and so's opinion....And...Idk just debating to debate!!!!

 

[Auburn]

Who knows. I refuse to debate about it any longer BUT someone else might have something to say. I'm not tired of seeing this thread pop up with new posts though because it is entertaining to me. There's nothing else going on with the board lately and this is the closest we have to a juicy thread, so I hope it keeps going.

It was entertaining to me 23487239487 pages back but ignorance becomes annoying after while. I cant do anything but SMH & hope she posts a new video soon? The threads about disasters seem to be the most popular.

 

[Auburn]

They're debating on why you shoudn't debate, and why you should debate so and so's opinion....And...Idk just debating to debate!!!!

Yeah... reaching for the thank yous

 

[HAIRapy]

It was entertaining to me 23487239487 pages back but ignorance becomes annoying after while. I cant do anything but SMH & hope she posts a new video soon? The threads about disasters seem to be the most popular.

Any thread about her blows up into something crazy... no matter what the subject. Did you see the one about her self-relaxing video? Pure craziness!

 

[Lucie]

Is Ateyaa the new Shima? WOWZERS!!!!!!

I feel bad she had to learn the way that she did.

 

[pookaloo83]

It was entertaining to me 23487239487 pages back but ignorance becomes annoying after while. I cant do anything but SMH & hope she posts a new video soon? The threads about disasters seem to be the most popular.

Hmmm. I wonder why? I'm not talking about anyone here, but I know that there are some people who like to see people when their down. I'm not really a fan of Ateeya but I give her props whne props is due.

 

[HAIRapy]

Is Ateyaa the new Shima? WOWZERS!!!!!!

I feel bad she had to learn the way that she did.

I can't even compare the two.

 

[Auburn]

Any thread about her blows up into something crazy... no matter what the subject. Did you see the one about her self-relaxing video? Pure craziness!

I dont think I paid much attention to that one. I want to pick a whole 'nother PERSON already!

 

[SmartyPants]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

I agree...

I've been on here two years this month and I am FINALLY getting a regimen down that's working... including realizing late last month that stretching is not for my hair!

 

[Auburn]

Hmmm. I wonder why? I'm not talking about anyone here, but I know that there are some people who like to see people when their down. I'm not really a fan of Ateeya but I give her props whne props is due.

Fa sho.
That comment in the other thread was just...wow. I was just thinking "did you REALLY go there? do you ALWAYS have negative sh..stuff to say about others?" Why are they NOT in this thread? Because she did keep MOST of her length? Would they be in here all rude if she had cut it to a jacked up ear length bob?

dang, now you got me in here talking about her again

 

[janaq2003]

Awww dang yall. I like Ateeya. Its called a hair journey for a reason, you live and you learn. I dont think we are in ANY position to pass judgement on anyones hair and say whether we "like" it or not--how childish is that to say whether you like someones hair or not. Commend them for trying and commend the for seeking out to learn about healthy hair practices, don't bring them down. I'm sure majority of us we're all at a place where we just figuring things out, and making mistakes, hell i know I was--I had all types of damage and setbacks and such. So its just disheartening to see how high on your horse some of yall have gotten...SMH

Go Ateeya. Keep learning. Keep sharing.

amen!!!!