What do you think of a relationship where you take the initiative 95+% of the time for affection? Like if you don't go to him or ask him, no hugs, no kissing, no touching happens. Even sex. And you are only dating, not married yet. This makes me question if he really likes me. He is a nice person otherwise. He shows he cares in other ways, like going out of his way to buy me something he knows I like. But I need physical affection, not monetary things. Got enough of getting monetary things but no affection from my parents, so no.
I have spoken to him about it. We are in counseling and the therapist spoke to him about how important it is to me. He said he will make an effort but remains the same. I'm thinking of ending things mainly because of this. Friends and family think I'm crazy for wanting to end things because he is nice. Last weekend, we spent the whole weekend together and didn't kiss once. I forgot to take the initiative, so it didn't happen. I asked him last night to hold me while we were in bed, shortly after he started humping me and asked for sex. I only wanted to be held.
If things are this way now, what do I have to look forward to in a marriage? I'm so conflicted.
The woman in this video has a similar problem, do you agree with the advice?
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I have spoken to him about it. We are in counseling and the therapist spoke to him about how important it is to me. He said he will make an effort but remains the same. I'm thinking of ending things mainly because of this. Friends and family think I'm crazy for wanting to end things because he is nice. Last weekend, we spent the whole weekend together and didn't kiss once. I forgot to take the initiative, so it didn't happen. I asked him last night to hold me while we were in bed, shortly after he started humping me and asked for sex. I only wanted to be held.
If things are this way now, what do I have to look forward to in a marriage? I'm so conflicted.
The woman in this video has a similar problem, do you agree with the advice?
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