TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
OK... I may have stolen this topic from a radio show (Everything is everything...or was--HATE he's not on anymore), but I recently experienced this first hand.
A friend of mine who has been dating a wonderful guy for a while walked into a BBQ on Memorial Day with a big smile on her face and an engagement ring on her finger.
You would think that those closest to her would have been ecstatic, but quite the contrary. She was met with a mixture of heartfelt congrats and neck rolling and lip smacking "Girl, be careful"... "You know what he does for a living..."
I was disheartened. This woman has been blessed to find an extremely handsome, wealthy man over the age of 40 with no kids that ADORES her. She has not stopped smiling since she met this man, yet some ladies started passing out cups of haterade immediately.
Ladies, have we become that cynical? Have we allowed ourselves to be mistreated so badly by the WRONG men that we can't celebrate when one of our sisters finds their Mr. Right? Have we really stooped so low to think that every successful, handsome black man is a dog, or does misery love company?
Just random thoughts...
A friend of mine who has been dating a wonderful guy for a while walked into a BBQ on Memorial Day with a big smile on her face and an engagement ring on her finger.
You would think that those closest to her would have been ecstatic, but quite the contrary. She was met with a mixture of heartfelt congrats and neck rolling and lip smacking "Girl, be careful"... "You know what he does for a living..."
I was disheartened. This woman has been blessed to find an extremely handsome, wealthy man over the age of 40 with no kids that ADORES her. She has not stopped smiling since she met this man, yet some ladies started passing out cups of haterade immediately.
Ladies, have we become that cynical? Have we allowed ourselves to be mistreated so badly by the WRONG men that we can't celebrate when one of our sisters finds their Mr. Right? Have we really stooped so low to think that every successful, handsome black man is a dog, or does misery love company?
Just random thoughts...