BroadstreetBully
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![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
For a while I was going through a rough single period. You know that rough patch when you start getting REALLY lonely and desperate? Or when you're really feeling this guy and he isn't giving you the time of day, so now you're all bent out of shape and very upset? Yea, that was me. earlier this year, especially around Valentine's Day.
But I'm really enjoying single life. Of course I still go through rough patches occasionally...I mean, I AM a woman...basically a walking hormone. But once I get over those road blocks, I'm right back happy being single.
I don't want to think about getting serious with anyone until next year. Granted, I won't pass up "Mr. Right" if he comes my way sooner, but quite honestly, I don't want to be bothered until 2009.
Have you ladies ever felt this way? You get the urge to get right back into a serious commitment, but then you think to yourself..."I really don't want to be bothered"?
I just don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship right now. I told myself I'd have a different outlook at the beginning of this year. I thought I'd be "That Girl" and go about dating and getting serious the right way. But I had a wakeup call earlier this year with some guy I was crushing on. I pursued him
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
So I'm going to use the rest of this year to work on myself. Granted I'll casually date and flirt, etc. But I'm not in it to win it just yet. I'm going to continue to work on my body, health, skin, hair, finances, self-esteem, future, etc for the rest of this year, with no man getting in the way of that. I have about 9 months of singledom, and I'm looking foward to it!
So who else here is single by choice? Why have you decided to stay single? When do you plan on opening yourself up to falling in love?