One thing I definitely have found out through participation/viewing this site...as much as you admire someone else's hair, even if you have their regimen and products down pact, that doesn't necessarily mean you will be able to 'recreate the look.' Everyone's hair is different and responds differently...even to the same regimens and products. You really have to become comfortable with your own hair, and appreciate its own assets...and challenges (not going to use the word 'liabilities'), such as they are. Sometimes that can be difficult when compared to a head of lush, long, thick, healthy hair, whether natural or relaxed, that some women seem to grow with little to no effort! That bible verse by Paul come to mind: I've learned to be content abase and abound. (Running fingers through hair) I'm feeling a bit abase at the moment, but I know abound is coming!!!!!