Kay.Dee
Well-Known Member
This is just a vent and it's really long
Today while I was at work, my mom took my 16 y/o sister to get a relaxer with their regular stylist.
I got home from work @ 5, and my sister came in 10 minutes later. She was at the salon ALL DAY. Her appointment was at 9, she came home around 5:15.
Apparently the stylist was talking on the phone to someone in tongues, holding prayer circles, and doing other people's hair all day.
Anyways...she came in with her hair chopped off to the bottom of her ears.
Her hair was nearing shoulder length. Unfortunately I was helping her transition (she'd been wearing micros for 8 months) but it my parents ended it 2 months ago. I can't argue with them and she is not my child, just my sister.
Supposedly the stylist said that my since my sister didn't wash her hair or visit her for 1 month, that she had to cut it because it wouldn't hold a curl.
Even though I know it is bull****, I asked my sister:
"Did she say this before your relaxer or after?"
Sis "After, she said she couldn't curl it because it was thin from me not washing it"
Me "Did she put the relaxer all over your entire hair or just the nappy part?"
Her "She did my whole head"
So basically the stylist overprocessed my sister's hair and proceeded to blame it on her. And now my little sis in in trouble because her hair is short, and the hair dresser scolded her in front of my mom and basically told her it was her fault that it got cut.
I tried to tell my mom that although she needs to wash her hair more often (Which she knows, I tell her all the time), not washing your hair doesn't make it limp and fine. But slapping a relaxer on previously relaxed hair will!
She told me she didn't care about what I read on the internet and that I am not a trained stylist so she doesn't want to hear anything from me.
This lady has even up my mom's hair. This is the same stylist that encouraged my mom to get a relaxer on top of a texturizer. I told my mom it was a horrible idea and she did it anyways and her hair shedded forever and she eventually got it cut to about 2/3 inches. She even admitted that she should have listened to me on that one. For most people here that is common sense.
At this point I don't care if my mom messes up her own hair because it's her choice, but my sister is suffering at the hands of a horrible stylist. This woman is an outright liar! The only tihng I can tell my sister is that once she graduates high school she will be free to do whatever she wants with her hair, whether she stays relaxed or becomes natural. And to avoid going to this woman at all costs.
Why do some women take every word their stylist has said as gospel, even though they have YET to see any type of progress, only catastrophe after catastrophe?
I'm not mad at the length, it just the outright lying that pisses me off. Now my parents are pissed with my sister and she had nothing to do with it.
this is a pick of her hair while she was transitioning, before the hairdresser she was skimming full shoulder length. Now it's a the bottom of her ear.
Today while I was at work, my mom took my 16 y/o sister to get a relaxer with their regular stylist.
I got home from work @ 5, and my sister came in 10 minutes later. She was at the salon ALL DAY. Her appointment was at 9, she came home around 5:15.
Apparently the stylist was talking on the phone to someone in tongues, holding prayer circles, and doing other people's hair all day.
Anyways...she came in with her hair chopped off to the bottom of her ears.
Her hair was nearing shoulder length. Unfortunately I was helping her transition (she'd been wearing micros for 8 months) but it my parents ended it 2 months ago. I can't argue with them and she is not my child, just my sister.
Supposedly the stylist said that my since my sister didn't wash her hair or visit her for 1 month, that she had to cut it because it wouldn't hold a curl.
Even though I know it is bull****, I asked my sister:
"Did she say this before your relaxer or after?"
Sis "After, she said she couldn't curl it because it was thin from me not washing it"
Me "Did she put the relaxer all over your entire hair or just the nappy part?"
Her "She did my whole head"
So basically the stylist overprocessed my sister's hair and proceeded to blame it on her. And now my little sis in in trouble because her hair is short, and the hair dresser scolded her in front of my mom and basically told her it was her fault that it got cut.
I tried to tell my mom that although she needs to wash her hair more often (Which she knows, I tell her all the time), not washing your hair doesn't make it limp and fine. But slapping a relaxer on previously relaxed hair will!
She told me she didn't care about what I read on the internet and that I am not a trained stylist so she doesn't want to hear anything from me.
This lady has even up my mom's hair. This is the same stylist that encouraged my mom to get a relaxer on top of a texturizer. I told my mom it was a horrible idea and she did it anyways and her hair shedded forever and she eventually got it cut to about 2/3 inches. She even admitted that she should have listened to me on that one. For most people here that is common sense.
At this point I don't care if my mom messes up her own hair because it's her choice, but my sister is suffering at the hands of a horrible stylist. This woman is an outright liar! The only tihng I can tell my sister is that once she graduates high school she will be free to do whatever she wants with her hair, whether she stays relaxed or becomes natural. And to avoid going to this woman at all costs.
Why do some women take every word their stylist has said as gospel, even though they have YET to see any type of progress, only catastrophe after catastrophe?
I'm not mad at the length, it just the outright lying that pisses me off. Now my parents are pissed with my sister and she had nothing to do with it.
this is a pick of her hair while she was transitioning, before the hairdresser she was skimming full shoulder length. Now it's a the bottom of her ear.
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